Being the Nice Guy

[Abby_mcwayne]

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who says nice guys are boring! what if you are a nice guy with a gud sense of humor!?? aber... mas boring ata ang BADGUY... nahan mo sige mo lakaw unya naay sigeg atang sa imo uyab?? hala sige... ad2 sa badguy..

ay oh.. pwede na xa.. heheheh
exemption ang mga funny guys..

[joan624]

ang pinaka-nindut tingali kng naay challenge nig sugod then ka-discover ka nga sweetest / nicest person cya
... to No One Else But You... dba??Ü

[Nammies]

another lesson learned..

[freddoi24]

naigo ko sa article.. hehehe.. it's time to change now.. thanks for the person who posted it there.. thanks alot!!!

[jepogz]

bad guy na d-i ang uso ron??..mao d-i ksagaran sa mga bad guy dghan yabz.....hmmmmmmm..

[emow]

it really doesn't matter kung nice o badguy... in the end, katindog ba xa sa iyang kaugalingon... daghan kaau ku kaila pa badguy2x effect, barako lage pero cge pangayu mama/papa kwarta... kun dili tagaan, masuko... pakauwaw lang... naa pud nice guy, pa nice2x lang apan mga gifts iya pang hatag, gkan ra diay sa kwarta sa amahn.. pastilan... i think mas maayo gyud nang guy nga naa sa iyang ulo sense of responsibilty bisan asang aspect sa kinabuhi...

[Peace]

Nahala!

What it boils down to, who gets the girl. . . the bad - guy man kaha?

But what matters most is who will be willing to stay with the girl, for better or for worse, in-richer or in-poorer, till death do you part. . . (bad-guy kaha gihapon. . . ? You wish!

[jadestoner]

so this article is trying to say that women want a sense of security by having someone who has a "strong" personality? and that NICE guys who are "predictable" are perceived to be WEAKER since they give too much?
well i really think that that outlook on "NICE GUYS" is just too shallow...
not to diss her opinion on "NICE GUYS", but i think the "NICE GUYS" are probably the ones that are approached first by the girls after getting hurt bu the "NOT-SO-NICE GUYS"...


THOUGH "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST, THEY DO SOMETIMES GET THE BEST PRIZE"...

[rare _phoenix]

Just want to share with you guys:

"I'm one of the nicest guys I know."
"How come I always seem to give so much more than I get?"
"All I want is to be appreciated, is that asking too much?"
"I can never do it right."

Sound familiar? These are typical Nice Guy sentiments. A nice guy's primary goal is to make others happy. Nice guys have been conditioned to believe that if they are good, giving, and caring, they will be loved, get what they want, and have a smooth life.

Who is a nice guy?

* He is the relative who lets his wife run the show.
* He is the friend who will do anything for anybody, but whose own life seems to be in shambles.
* He is the guy who frustrates his wife because he is so afraid of conflict that nothing ever gets resolved.
* He is the boss who tells one person what they want to hear, then reverses himself to please someone else.
* He is the man who lets people walk all over him because he doesn't want to rock the boat.
* He is the dependable guy at work who will never say "no," but would never tell anyone if they were imposing on him.
* He is the man whose life seems so under control, until BOOM, one day he does something to destroy it all.

In general, nice guys share the following characteristics:

* Nice guys seek the approval of others.
* Nice guys try to hide their perceived flaws and mistakes.
* Nice guys put other people's needs and wants before their own.
* Nice guys sacrifice their personal power and often play the role of a victim.
* Nice guys tend to be disconnected from other men and from their own masculine energy.
* Nice guys co-create relationships that are less than satisfying.
* Nice guys create situations in which they do not have very much good ***.
* Nice guys frequently fail to live up their full potential.

Do you know a nice guy here?

[tokidoki]

sounds like a NEEDY guy who tries hard to "fit in" rather than a "nice" guy.