On Promiscuous Girls: What can you say?

[-shinobi-]

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naa jud gurls in.ana. naa jud ko kaila. kaila ko sa gurl nya kaila sad nako ang guys nga iya na kuan. haha . kuan lage jud. nya naa pa jud xa uyab at the same time.

[babypaupau]

my sister had the same situation. her husband is very possesive and controlling. there was a time in their marriage not long ago where they had this huge fight. the husband txtd my sister using his uncle's number. he was "testing" her to see if mapatol sya sa lalaki na dili niya kilala. if she would agree to a "date". my sister agreed to "meet" him and that made her husband very, very angry and did a lot of stupid things and made really harsh decisions...



my sister knew from the very beginning that it was him and decided to play along his game to piss him off bigtime. nalingaw ra siya nagpalagot sa iyang bana, its her way of getting back to him. so who ended up looking stupid in the story? the husband. sya ra nabktima sa iyang kbuang. tsk tsk tsk.

[benj]

Go Girl!.... ayaw lang kompyansa, basin magmahay raka.

[JIGS]

bitaw naa jud in ana nga girl na kusog kaau manghagad.......

[joshbonz]

bitaw naa jud in ana nga girl na kusog kaau manghagad.......

this is what is called URSH-- UNCONTROLLABLE RAGING SEXUAL HORMONES..

don't get bitten by it.. or else... hehehehe

[JIGS]

while mga bata pamu......take time to enjoy and yogyog jud ug sakto ky ang panahon mulabay ra
magbasol MO SA WA NIN U BUHATA..........

i agree...mentras bata pa hala ukay jud mo mga guys unya ang mga gurls paukay pud mo.....todo nato..hehehe

[Soul_Captive]

The tragedy of married men cheating on their wives and such is caused by the two most common issues: fear of commitment, midlife crisis

Fear of commitment: It is a known fact that some guys have this death-like fear of commitment. Why? because it entails having to make do without one's own freedom. hence, the man is no longer a "whole" human being so to speak. Why? because a man has to have that freedom to do whatever he so pleases. That's why
'he's the man'. A man would be better off castrated if he were in this state. but it need not be that drastic. Some men find a way around the whole "losing one's freedom" issue by looking at it from another angle.

So to answer your questions as to why married men screw around with their secretary and such is because they know they can have their fill, be the WHOLE man that he once was before he got married for that brief moment of lust in the office or where, just so the satisfy his male ego. The male ego is the most dangerous part of a man's person. so once he's got that fully satisfied in manner that is compromising to his marriage, then he feels like a man again. However, these types of men tend to be overly insecure about their own sexuality. Other men, express their midlife crisis through other means. that is to say, that which will not affect the state of their marriage

Midlife crisis: More obvious in men than in women(sori guys, it's true), men tend to be more ostentatious about their midlife crisis than with women. Why? A midlife crisis or "phase of life issue" is a point in time wherein you know you've crossed the Half-way mark and you don't know for how long can you still go on with your life. which is why some men "seize" the day by relieving boyhood fantasies such as buying a fancy sportscar, day younger chicks or screw around with them for a time and such. why? To "make up for lost time" so to speak. Men who tend to constantly repress their own fantasies, desires, wants, and so on, tend to be more aggressive in this point of their life.

So to answer your question again using this point of view, MAjority of cheating men are in this state of life. They feel they have lost out in the race of life or felt "cheated" so they have to balance it out. It is NOT because they weren't able to get the urges out of their system. The whole idea behind the urges of men is that wives can't be treated like sluts. You can ask a slut to give head but you can't demand that from your wife. your wife is the mother of your children and you don't want the mouth that gives head to be the same mouth that kisses your kids.

So, are you saying there is enough right for men to be promiscuous because of the reasons you have provided? The fear of commitment and the issue of midlife crisis are not biologically built-in for males, thus we cannot blame nature for such. Personally, I am afraid of commitment (especially serious and long term ones), and I bet there are a lot of other women who feel the same way I do. Is that enough to justify promiscuity then? I don't think so..The same thing goes for midlife crisis..

[juleskiboi]

hmmmm what i can say is this:

i believe dili raman girls ang promiscuous bah, even guys flirt, but most of the time i keep this in mind -->> that kasagaran actions sa tawo in general is either mao jd na or misinterpreted by the people around that person...(i do things man sd that not all makasabot, so sa tanan nga walay paki/nakasabot: thank you; sa mga dili kasabot/feeling tarong/hypocrites: I DONT CARE!)

para nako, there are 2 types of so-called "promiscuous girl": 1. kanang teaser, meaning gi-test ra ang guy (to get the real intentions), and 2. kana jd promiscuos as-in!!

but it doesnt mean it's bad at all, everyone has his/her own reason/s why they choose to be like that..basta naa lang sa lugar, then go...

yun lang po...BOW!!!

[anna batungbakal]

i am in totalagreement w soul captive that women have the same sexual urges w men , and its just since our society condemns women to hell if they get promiscous while the men gets applaud for being a man. nowadays, however w the advent of the internet and the cellphones men and women alike are more emboldened in their quest for satisfying what their loins are dictating them. it will be up to the person indeed how to be responsible and be mature enough not to adhere to whats the in thing but what your conscience dictates.........

[neofit]

pinaksitay gyud!
hangtud mang hapdos na!