Breaking up with a Girl who's Madly in Love with You

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you know guys,
If you do have a girl who is MADLY in love with you then I am sure she will never look for another guy

Sometimes girls are like this. When they love, they give up everything they have and not even leave some for their own. I don't even call this being immature because passion just eats you up.
When we love with all out hearts, we accept the person completely as who they are and fall in love even with the most unthinkable flaws that they have..

Guys who are in a relationship with women like these should be thankful and not just straw up and storm through saying "I'm not in love with you because I want something else in life!!!"

True love only comes to you once in a lifetime. You should not waste this. Even if you wait and become Kurt Cobain first, you'll never find someone who will love you like that... never..

..i agree with this, and always.. people would never know what they've got, until they've lost it...

OnT: just tell her exactly how u felt for her now directly.. la nay paligoy2x ue, then don't make it to such a point na sa laing tao pa niya mahibaw-an na u wanted to break her up, or nagplastikan na ka sa imong emotions niya just to wait for the right time to come. makahbaw jd bya na ang babae if there is something wrong na sa feelings sa guy niya.. bsta mas nice jd nang dretso-on kaysa dugay2x-on pa..

..if ani gani, u've talked to her na break na mo,then after kay sige pa xa ug apas nimo, try to avoid her nalang, if mahimo change ur numbers and all.. i once had a stalker, ahehe..as in stalker jd, and feel nako obsession na jud to iya, wat i did, ako lang jd xa gi-ignore, as in tanan2x, sa txts,ym,friendster msgs,calls sa balay,tanan! then after months of it, nihunong rman sad,ahehe.. lisod bya,pero mas masakitan man gd ka makakita ug somebody gd nga mag-asa pa sa wala,..anyway mao to xa..

[sweet_freak]

ako murag igo ko ani dah...
nanu man jud pud ang guys ibaliwala nila ang na feel sa gurl? sakit bya au jud...
ako, i don't know what to do...kay naa pa ko ani na situation...mura lang nya gnaduwa-an ako na feel...

paet..

[Soul_Captive]

ako murag igo ko ani dah...
nanu man jud pud ang guys ibaliwala nila ang na feel sa gurl? sakit bya au jud...
ako, i don't know what to do...kay naa pa ko ani na situation...mura lang nya gnaduwa-an ako na feel...

paet..

Sometimes girl, it is possible na the guy is not really playing with the girl's feelings but the feeling is just lost for whatever reason there may be..We have to accept that no matter how much the guy promises in the beginning that he will love you forever, we cannot just depend on that, because things change, people change and feelings change..It is beyond any body's control, so we cannot blame the guy and especially not blame ourselves..All we need to do is accept it..And eventually, we will find some space inside us to understand the other person's side..

[rishee]

@Rishee

Tsk.. What you said is the main reason why I..."straw up and storm through saying "I'm not in love with you because I want something else in life!!!" ..Coz you gota leave something for yourself.. I dont want to get all the attention, I dont want to get all your love.. Sometimes you gotta leave us hanging so to keep the fire burning.. do not give me the idea that you cant live w/out me coz I dont want that.. Although its flattering but it makes me think that I have conquered it all.. then our relationshp will become boring, then the passion wil be gone coz.. then I would start to look for some1 I havnt conquered, some1 more challenging.. some1 I cudnt have but I want to have.. sigh! (this is my side though..)

smells like teen spirit.. batan-on pa jud ka if that's how you see relationships.

Most women think that the current guy they are with right now will be the guy they will grow old with.. mao na ikaligo jud nang tanan gugma sa imo..

human mu ingon lang ka na walay challenge?? hmm... say that when you're 50 years old balding, wrinkly, and dying..

all our lives we look for that one person who we will be with for the rest of our lives

Wouldn't it be disappointing to overlook that point just because you wanted a challenge?

Dayun mu ingon dayun ka... na if we're meant to be, magbalik jud me!!!!

Well, most probably that girl who was soo0o0o in to you may have learned a lesson from you
and looked for someone who is willing to accept all that love overflowing from it's depths...

a litol reminder to the very competitive guys out there, a love like this can only be felt once and be given by one person..

maybe if mingawon na mo ug ingun ana na relationship, kamo napud mabuang sa gurl, nya kamo napud byaan.... give a litol love and it all comes back to you...

Some people just don't know what they've got til it's gone... nya redhorse dayun dagan..

pathetic..

(ako rapud ni hah.. hihihi.. away mode ko kay gkasab-an ko gkan.. litsi!!!) though I hope my point is clear

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Sometimes girl, it is possible na the guy is not really playing with the girl's feelings but the feeling is just lost for whatever reason there may be..We have to accept that no matter how much the guy promises in the beginning that he will love you forever, we cannot just depend on that, because things change, people change and feelings change..It is beyond any body's control, so we cannot blame the guy and especially not blame ourselves..All we need to do is accept it..And eventually, we will find some space inside us to understand the other person's side..

..ur very words are wat i needed to hear at this very moment... how sad to realize after posting a reply here yesterday or the other day, i could be the girl who that guy needs to break up with

[laagan_si_organizer]

... btaw mas nice man jud na if ang guy mochase sa girl always.....para kiligon pud ang girls...


its always good to try new thing with ur partner para dili puol......


unya di man magkacnabot kadugayan woi...nganu kaha nah....resulta, buwag dayon....toinks

this is not applicable to all...akong ex-bf...we're the exact opposite...hilumon xa, tabi-an ko...we even argue at small things (ex. current events..) to the point nga one of us is mangluod or something like that...but at the end of the day, we realize that it was somehow healthy for both of us...because we get to share our opinions and sides, and somewhat giving each other information about what we've learned in life...believe it or not...the relationship lasted for a year or so..but sad to say, we have to break up because he has to leave the country for greener pastures..i had him chose his responsibilities for his family over me.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

... btaw mas nice man jud na if ang guy mochase sa girl always.....para kiligon pud ang girls...


its always good to try new thing with ur partner para dili puol......


unya di man magkacnabot kadugayan woi...nganu kaha nah....resulta, buwag dayon....toinks

guys are really fascinated if we play the other sides..wish dat a girl will be brave enough to stand for what she want..not just waiting...

[taga_ipil]

... Tell her directly.

sakit man pero mas maayo samtan sayo pa, kaysa maabot sa time nga padung namo simbahan then diha naka mo-atras. lisud mo padayun sa usa ka relationship kung ikaw mismo wala nay feelings para sa iyaha.

[Soul_Captive]

@taga_ipil
Good point bro..If you keep on making believe that things are well, you might end up in such serious matters that are way way beyond control already..

[crush_23]

Guys,

if you have a girlfriend or boyfriend assuming madly in love with you and you've been years already
but the feelings, care and interest are not there already, if comes to a point na murag imo na sya gbaliwala, dont even care kung naa ba nanguyab nya or wala lang jud ka pakialam.
you never text or wait lang ka kung mo text sya, kung magkuyog mo lahi na jud kaayo.
the sweetness wala na jud.

how will you break up with her/him?

cge daw...

i am often confused why it has to be this way.......kana btaw dugay na au jud mo unya you've been together for years, even exchange intimate feelings with each other....why is that moabot jud sa point nga mawad-an ug interes......is it bcoz the love is weak or not enuf to make the relationship last? or dili lang jud para sa usag-usa.....luoy jud au kung kinsa tong wala ma fall-out of love kay grabe jud na struggle...okey lang sa nakauna ug fall-out kay di sya maglisod ug let go.....

so many situations na akong nahibaw-an ingon aneh which always resulted to break-ups...haaaayyyy