Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[Genocide]

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lisud muleng pero kong naa ka makit-an bago na ghurl malimtan raman pud nimo.

[maritess]

tanan muagi ani.

[emperadorse28]

see you at the crossroads... ( someday )

[taga_ipil]

ambot lang pero dali raman ko maka-recover after breakup...

its her loss not mine...

[papoy]

whats the best thing to do when you get over with someone especially the one you love the most?
try to make your own list...

1.beer
2.beer
3.beer
4.beer
5.beer

because they say.. sa langit wala ang beer thats why we drink it here!!!

[aoryaj]

meditate for a day...

[mikogerald]

I cant move on either. sorry.

[laagan_si_organizer]

to move on is to leave all of the hurt and pains behind...wanna come away with me??

[Soul_Captive]

I know there is much difference between short term and long term relationships, hence some people may say I am not eligible enough to give opinions on this since I have not gotten in any long term relationships..The longest I had being a few months short of a year..However, I believe it is not about the length of time you spend together with a lover but the depth of emotions and commitment you have invested on the relationship that matters when trying to get over the person..The length of the relationship, however, is a huge factor on the depth of the relationship..
On the issue at hand, I would say, the first thing to do is to decide..Decide that the relationship is over, decide that there is nothing you can do about it (that is if there is really no way you can mend things) and decide that you want to move on..This has always been my first step when I want to get over and done with a relationship..And I'd say, this is the most important and the first thing a person should do not just in love but also in life..Better expressed in tagalog, Isaksak mo sa kukuti mo that moving is what you want, what you need to do and what is the best to do..Once this line of thinking has gotten into your brain and whole system, things will fall in place accordingly..You will be able to find other things to do for the time you used to spend on nurturing the relationship, and eventually, the relationship will turn into nothing but mere memories..

[LBJ888]

date others. that will help