is it hard to a guy to say to his girlfriend, " i don't like you anymore"

[nadine eidloth]

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thanks babymiki may kakampi nako ana nga point. ang problema man gud anang laki talawan muatubang sa problema mao na nga mudagan na lang ug walay pananghid.

[DARK WANDERER]

it is hard for a guy to say "i don't like you anymore" kay dili mi
gusto maka sakit ug feelings sa girl..dba?

[greystoke]

excuse me po... ms nadine.....

right kaau na darkwanderer
first of all...we are not afraid of telling that we dont love u anymore....but the problem is......when we try to say it in front of u.....u actually say.."" nganu man naay lain party....or unsa pana..daghan kaau pangutana..." rite or wrong?

second if we tell u straight....to ur face....(some of the girls)will lose there mind or comit suicide....rite or wrong?

3rd sometimes we show and let u feel that we dont like or love u anymore.....but then girls just ignoring them.,...cause we want u(girls) to break up with us...or say di nako nahan nimo io...kay na usab naman ka...

mas ok man kung ingon ana diba??

[P-Chan]

for me... proably yes... i'd rather hurt her honestly than to miss lead her with a lie

[blank check]

toink.... kanta man na imu P-Chan, pero sakto ka bro, sulti gyud sa tinuod. i just don't think it's that easy to do.

dark wanderer / greystroke, im with you guys!

so looking back at the title of this thread... saying "i don't like you anymore" to our girlfriend is not hard for us, not at all. Its hard on the girl's part! That's why we tend to shy away from uttering those words. In my case, I try to make big mistakes, make her feel im no good for her, so she'll be the one to end things. I know it's also hard for her seeing our relationship fall apart that way. Now, I don't really know which is harder between the two. "in your face" or something subtle like the latter?

but know what mga girls ani nga thread, you can't really blame it all to us, and call us stupid. give us some respect. if we had a relationship with you, then we surely felt something for you, except that it died down. although its not right to tell you the real score, we also don't want to hurt you big. and in the first place, i don't think there could be anyway that we could tell ourselves that we got to love you still. FEELINGS LIKE THAT JUST HAPPEN.

[nadine eidloth]

your very much excuse greystoke, dili man fear ang reason nimo para dili ka makatell sa imong girl straight to her eye that you already lost your affection to her, then y is it that you will be irratated with the questions that will coming up? it's natural nga mag question na nagwonder gud na why the relationship goes in that way.
Ingna nalang gud nga usa ka sa mga talawan mo face the problema mao na nga mo run away from it nga mura ug hangin.
Hello, dili tanan nga babaye tanga nga mo commit ug suicide because of a stupid boyfriend. Para lang na sa mga babaye nga wala nagthink nga not all the relationship works long kay dili tanan ngga guy buotan. Sagad stupido nga mangingilad. Gets nimo mangingilad mong dagko.
y man nga hikugan mo dili mi mabuhi kon wala mo? Just want you to remind nga daghan na nga babaye karon ang leaders. mao na ayaw i think nga hina mi. Did you get?

[nadine eidloth]

maayo paka p chan honest, k, lang na oi kas a ra bitaw ang sakit maka overcome ra bitaw. kaysas magdahom, magpaabot sa wala, masmakabuwisit ug mas sakit.

[P-Chan]

ana gud na ang relationship... what's the use if daghan kaayo skeleton sa closet...

[blank check]

nadine i think u'r crossing the line already. i don't know about your past but you got some issues girl, i bet my my life on that. u cant just shout it outÂ* to the world that we guys are MANGINGILAD and STUPID at that. you just can't do that to everybody. how about we guys call all of you girls stupid for not noticing that we don't like you anymore, that you don't get it when we act and try to make you realize we don't feel the same way we used to feel for you. stupid!

[P-Chan]

nadine i think u'r crossing the line already. i don't know about your past but you got some issues girl, i bet my my life on that.

don't judge a book by it's cover... all of us have our own little dark secrets...