The Break-up/Buwag Discussions

[Soul_Captive]

from my point of view, i think you should just talk to her about it..personally, i'd love to have a guy whom i can talk to, and if you really show to her that you are willing to listen to her, then it's impossible for a girl not to open up to you..natural ra bya sa girls ang pagka-open about things..my ex used to be so mad at me because i talk a lot about my problems with other people..it helps man gud when you talk about your problem..
so, my assessment is that probably the girl does not feel comfortable talking to you about things because she feels you're not interested to listen..let her know that you are..

[Soul_Captive]

on the other hand, the fact that you're thinking of getting out of the relationship can actually be a sign that you are really not into her..this is something you have to ponder on, too..

[smooth]

interested baya ko. i told her na i would be there to listen to her anytime. that's why i was kinda bummed to learn that she talks to her guy friend about her problems & not to me.. coz like any other bf, i wanna be there for her too. but how can i be there for her if she's not telling me anything.. nya 8months na bya mi, should she be open by now?

[Soul_Captive]

she should be if she is comfortable with you..

eight months is long enough for two persons to get to the stage of being comfortable enough to talk about what they really feel..

you tell her that you are willing to listen, but do you show it? i mean, it might be that there were times when you did something that made her feel na di au ka interested to listen to her..even, a very not so obvious snickering when she talks about her problems can mean a lot..sometimes, girls prefer to believe in what they see than in what they hear..

another thing is that ikaw na mismo gasulti na you're bored with her talking about her problems and all that..it means she did open up to you, but you were bored with it, and naka sense xa, so she stopped talking about it..sakto kaha ko?

[mastersun23]

Ikaw raman gyud ang maka hibaw ana bro. If you feel di naka happy sa inyo relationship, then you have to let her go. She'll get hurt, but that's the way it is.. For me its hard to change a person to who you want her to be.. She has to decide to change. ultimately, it's either you accept it or move on.

[Soul_Captive]

Ikaw raman gyud ang maka hibaw ana bro. If you feel di naka happy sa inyo relationship, then you have to let her go. She'll get hurt, but that's the way it is.. For me its hard to change a person to who you want her to be.. She has to decide to change. ultimately, it's either you accept it or move on.

amen to this one!

[pawiks78]

1st reason palang niMo bro is enough na para iMo buwagan though slight ra but will do na
just y 2 cent

[Soul_Captive]

1st reason palang niMo bro is enough na para iMo buwagan though slight ra but will do na
just y 2 cent

why do you say that?

[HottieMomi]

try to talk things over. give another try or give it some time.
then if mao ra japon then let go.
if dli ka happy na then ur partner will not be happy either.
kapoy baya plastikanay.

[pawiks78]

why do you say that?

juz bcoz the girl is so stupid to do such things.. do you think its right for her to talk to another guy nga naa Man sya bf? of course thats an insult on our part seeMs that useless Me as a BF. whats the point Man pud that the girl of doign those such thing if ga huna2x o MagaMit sa iya utok nga naa sa iya BF nga Mainsulto..
haaaayyy stupidity