The Break-up/Buwag Discussions

[eiZaN]

yeah korek jud... murag lisud njd kaayu na sabton bro.. murag kadena nlng jud ang kuwang nmu ana nya e higot sa iyang hawak.... ehehe let her go na ui they say naa pay daghan...

[xXplaydeadXx]

lami.a na jd e tukar2 oi..lami na au e hapak2 og drums..
huhuhu

[chormatus]

bro,

did you ask your gf why she doesn't like you to go with your barkadas? She may have good reasons like the negative influence your barkadas have on you. Perhaps she does it to keep you from your barkadas whom she knows not fit for you.

[Genocide]

up up up!

[smooth]

Hi istoryans.. naa koy situation. What can you suggest/advise?

I have a girlfriend karon. We've been together 8months. (She=20, me=Basta 20's kapin hihi)
I'm bored with our relationship..Why?:

- if she has problems, she shares it with somebody else (iya guy friend) kay mas makasabot daw niya coz they are in the same situation. (they are both breadwinners daw)
- she's not inherently expressive. Di mu express unsay na feel or gibati. (mag tagna-tagna nlng ko ani)
- she tells me nothing about her day, her stories, etc.. (Literally gahi kaayo pa istoryahon..hilomon gyud..mag sige tanaw into blank space. I tried na di kaayo ko mo storya sa amo date, and as expected, wa gihapon mi nahimo. sige lang tutok)
- di pud mu express if she wants a kiss or hug, etc... Then she tells me she misses all those stuff (you know it doesn't hurt if girls wud express their affection for you) ako gyud mg sige una..
- Most of the time, she talks about problems kay breadwinner lagi.. i can emphatize with her but sometimes its nice nga dili pud pirme problema imu istorya
- dili siya tabi-an. Ako ra mag sige ug storya & share . . .BORING na intawn..huhuhu

The problem is, di na gyud exciting amu relationship..Now don't get me wrong. Di man ko pul-anon.

But i think we're just opposite. I'm attracted to fun loving, happy personalities. I love fun, good, intelligent conversations. Beauty just don't cut it anymore. She's the SUPER silent, SUPER secretive, ULTRA conservative type & i'm just not feeling it anymore...

Don't hate me girls. But i've given it 2 months & told her what i feel about her being silent,etc.. But ing-ana lang gyud iya personality.. It's unfair to let her change overnight. I feel its better to end it while it's still early.. i know it will hurt, but it will hurt more if dugay-dugayon..

How do i tell her.? I know it has to be face to face.. Ditsohon nalang kay adto raman padung.. Watcha tink?

[ajol]

siguro di siya ganhan mo talk

kay naka feel na siya nga dili ka ganahan sige ug paminaw sa iyang problems as a breadwinner...

mao ra man pirmi iyang gi atubang mag breadwinner... wala na siguro gali na siya time mo tan-aw ug TV or minaw sa radyo kay sige ug trabaho...

so if this is the case.... clearly the girl has a big family (typical Pinoy) plus extended family...

[smooth]

actually eversince, ana naman siya. hilomon type.
unsay gamit sa uyab if she doesn't share her feelings/probs with me..

[ajol]

- Most of the time, she talks about problems kay breadwinner lagi.. i can emphatize with her but sometimes its nice nga dili pud pirme problema imu istorya

mo share man siya.. since she is a breadwinner then all she talks about is how to keep up with the rising cost of rice, food, electriciy, rent etc....

Don't expect her to talk about showbiz, having fun because all she does is work, work, work

[team Pura]

hmm, sa description nimu sa iya bai I think she's worth it. She doesn't deserve a let go. But if cia mismo makigbuwag then thats a different story. People change if u keep reminding them and if you're the type who gives up halfway then wala natay mahims. If attracted ka sa mga vibrant people, then why not infect her with that same vibrant attitude? Like you said, it can't be accomplished overnight. But sa imu nana diskarte and kita guys naturally make the first move.

Sayang bai, she's just missing something that you're looking for then you've already decided to let go. Think about the good points she has and weigh it over your decision.


and btw, ang uyab is there to complement, not to supplement.

[smooth]

thanks for the advices mga bro.. i thought long & hard about it na, but i'll ponder on it again..