Being the 3rd Party in another's relationship?

[Baeybe_Bryce]

OT: a little respect..my favorite song.

hmmm.....am i missing something here?hehehe...

[laagan_si_organizer]

hmmm.....am i missing something here?hehehe...

don't worry, there's nothing much...it's just my favorite song. do u wana miss something?

[Baeybe_Bryce]

don't worry, there's nothing much...it's just my favorite song. do u wana miss something?

hmmm...sure y not...third party huh??hahahaha

[laagan_si_organizer]

hmmm...sure y not...third party huh??hahahaha

that was a long time ago..and i was CLUEless at the time. i'm over it, actually, but i still love the song. in fairness, i was the one who broke up with him the moment i found it out.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

that was a long time ago..and i was CLUEless at the time. i'm over it, actually, but i still love the song. in fairness, i was the one who broke up with him the moment i found it out.

ouch it hurts...

[laagan_si_organizer]

ouch it hurts...

not anymore..i'm ready for another one to come... basta oie..work mode na jud ko. promise!!

[Soul_Captive]

guys, being a third party is not easy, but if it is really worth it, then just enjoy it..

that's what i did, until i no longer felt good in it, then i let go (just very recently) :c

[Soul_Captive]

OT: bsan asa ibutang c BABY_BRYCE and his PRINCESS ai, they still connect..

char!hehehe

[archspace]

Being the "third party" is sane How could you be sane in this INSANE situation... Get a life and quit this mess, then you'll be sane

[babypaupau]

i humbly ask dear istoryans to be more sympathetic..some, if not most, people who rant about their problems here do so in the hope of finding some understanding which they probably did not find with the people around them..and all the condemnation they get does not help them nor make the world better..a little more understanding and care are more likely to do the trick..
being a third party has always been considered negative, but it always pays to take every aspect of the story into consideration..

i agree about being sympathetic... we do get carried away by our emotions and reactions when we read about something that does not necessarily agree with our points of views and beliefs. BUT we have to consider that we dont really know the person on a personal level, we dont know what they are going through. people who tell their stories and seek opinions from people in this site doesnt need to be criticized. people go for this site because of the anonimity...for the reason that they may be scared of being "judged" and "labeled" as such and such. i guess we should give them the benefit of the doubt. and as i always say, we dont have the right to be all "self-righteous". we all screwed up at one point and humans as we are, we have the right to be weak and fall short of other people's expectations of us. even the society's.

as with the third parties, i dont think there's only one person that should take all the blame. i even think that all parties are to blame at some point. in a relationship, its success and failure depends on the two people. not just either one of them. they both have the responsibility to make it work. say, mangita ug lain ang laki. makakita sya ug lain babae na mahimong "third party" sa relationship. nganong mangita man ug lain ang laki in the first place? because somehow naay pagkukulang ang babae na nakita nya sa lain. so you cant really say na ang third party lng ang sad.an.