Originally Posted by
diem
Hey this happens more often than one thinks. So much that this is a common premise in many romantic movies, like "How To Lose A Guy In Ten Days". I've had guy friends who had serious crushes on girls but have major torpe issues that it often takes a serious dare, scare, wager or bet just to even make them say "hi" and hold a conversation with the girls.
One can either take it positively or negatively. Besides should it really matter how a relationship begins? Or should it matter more that there is a relationship and in that relationship there is LOVE and HAPPINESS?
In essence the beginnings of many good and wonderful things, particularly when it comes to human matters, are not always perfect, neat and ideal. If anyone has witnessed a childbirth would know.
But there are times that due to a bet, the relationship has become just a game and the partner is just a means to acquire a prize or stature. That's exploitative and that's to the fault of a guy who's being an insensitive, maliciously masculine jerk. If one happens to be the victim of such a situation, just BET on God and Karma to deliver your vindication.
Gipustaan ra diay ka sa imo uyab? If both of you are happy together, it shouldn't be a problem should it? However people should really be aware of what's real and sincere from what could be a con or a game.
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