HELP Me and my American boyfriend

[chenggay!!!]

hi girl

if at first u doubt, doubt again... ok?
his reasons are so clear that he isnt really serious with u.
giilad ka in ur face and the sad thing is u r actually convincing urself that ur feelings or doubts aren't real subconsciously

i understand that u love him so much but then that's like fairytale
wake up! reality really hurts when it does not fall in ur favor.

if u go on, u will bear this burden with him for the rest of ur married life.
if u keep on allowing these terrible actions to continue... well, it is predictable, ul end up miserable and unhappy

maybe there is something that stops u from actually listening to the people in this forum. and i know it is only u hu knows the answer

evaluate urself. with hu u r now and with what u deserve....

think of long term rather than what u may seem to enjoy now

we can give u all types of advices and suggestions. but it all boils down to YOU
all it takes is ONE DECISION

and i hope u make THE RIGHT ONE

have a happy life!

[imgettinsickofthislife]

hi, im sorry for a long abscnce.... ala nmn gud ko nag check sa ako ad... btw, we broke up just 4weeks ago..still hurts bt im tryng to move on, actually im dating dffrnt guy now bt still american guy.. dnt knw.. i ddnt look i just meet him at casino while im with my frnd..same place where i meet my ex..hes wrking and living here in cebu.. he wrks at IT PARK, were doin great so far... we argued bt just normal stuffs..im happy now, hes divorced and have daughter... im gonna meet his daughter soon.. im happy and i have no regrets.. thanks for the advices and i apologize if i ddnt answer any of ur replies...just busy.. ty guys

[xidor]

sa casino pa jd.. american.. murag same pattern..

[imgettinsickofthislife]

yep casino... bt hes nt a gambler., kay tungod american muingon naka nga same ra? i just read some of ur replies guys and honestly it do hurts a bit.. and nw im gonna rcved anthr msg like ths... wtf was wrng with u?

[vienzel]

probably @ xidor is noting some patterns sa places imo mga guys na meet...indeed its a pattern only sa place n people maybe not the character yet, however most likely leaning to that end.

sori if ur hurt ...isnt it truth hurts most of the time? careful lang miga, ky sa imo mga choices murag maka-ingon mn dyud ang mga pipol na pattern. if u dont mind me asking, what do u get in hanging out in these places? wud u be able to expect closer to a 100% gud guys over there? it cud be 2 sides only u will see...either they or u gambles? u dont look for the guys meant for u, ky mo abot ra na. however, i wish u r looking at the right places somehow!

[imgettinsickofthislife]

probably @ xidor is noting some patterns sa places imo mga guys na meet...indeed its a pattern only sa place n people maybe not the character yet, however most likely leaning to that end.

sori if ur hurt ...isnt it truth hurts most of the time? careful lang miga, ky sa imo mga choices murag maka-ingon mn dyud ang mga pipol na pattern. if u dont mind me asking, what do u get in hanging out in these places? wud u be able to expect closer to a 100% gud guys over there? it cud be 2 sides only u will see...either they or u gambles? u dont look for the guys meant for u, ky mo abot ra na. however, i wish u r looking at the right places somehow!

hi vienz, its nt really a big deal...bt yes nakasabot man sad ko.. . i go to casino with my frnds, i have american frnds in cebu if muari clA adto man daun diritso sa casino.. i play poker but i dnt gamble, kani ako bf karon na meet ni nako same place bt he never went there to play he stayed at waterfrnt.hes nt a gambler. heve been stayng here fr almost 4mnths already. nag wrk xa sa it park..i dnt expect to meet a 100% gud guy.. ala man cgro tao nga 100% maayo... and ive learned my mistakes already. usa pud ala man ko nangita, im just hangin out with my frnds to get over stuffs.. i dnt want to just stay in my room cry over worthless relationshp.. i ddnt look.. i jst meet him. and i dnt gve him my trust yet, spcialy hes wrkin in a cmpny , hes a boss so its kinda hard to trust yet. bt anywys i aprreciate ur concern.ty

[chad_tukes]

question lang:

what's with American guys?

mas sweet man mga pinoys like me.

[bemS]

buwagi

[imgettinsickofthislife]

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buwagi
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question lang:

what's with American guys?

mas sweet man mga pinoys like me.

dnt knw just happens... i agree with that but it just happen..have relationships with filipino guys before.

[lejean]

wonder lang ko unsa kaha nahitabo sa? 1 year naman gud... thinks it's better to close this thread kay gibuwagan naman nya ang amerikano na bf. then second nya bf american naman sad...

anyways, i think you are 20 hope mature2x nasad ka gamay and you are on the road of having a college degree... good luck