Recommend a Licensed Psychologist Please

[akosibert]

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halos tga adlaw ko pray!d jud mu da! i dont have a real friends!

[topaz]

halos tga adlaw ko pray!d jud mu da! i dont have a real friends!

well, if you pray without actions, murag wala ra pud na.. =)
try not to trouble your self sa with your parents probs, as of the moment la paka mahimo.try to concentrate in finding a job first. don't think you can solve all the problems sa imong fam,naay time na ma resolve ra na tanan

[Razzman038]

well, if you pray without actions, murag wala ra pud na.. =)
try not to trouble your self sa with your parents probs, as of the moment la paka mahimo.try to concentrate in finding a job first. don't think you can solve all the problems sa imong fam,naay time na ma resolve ra na tanan

this is true prayer without action is nothing. hope nga maka kita naka ug trabaho

[Keldricus]

Bro first of all don't get into the mindset that malas gyud ka in your jobhunting, be positive gyud everytime you apply for an interview/exam.

As for your parents' financial problems, naa ba mo relatives or close family friends na maka tabang ug gamay sa mga utang nyo? I'm sure there are always some who can help. One thing I've learned is don't personalize your problems too much gyud - take a step back and analyze everything objectively.

Are there unnecessary purchases /expenses you have in your home? How much do you spend for home/ food / transportation expenses etc? It helps a lot if you have everything laid out and know how much you're spending for example every month so you can eliminate gasto. Make your lives simple lang, no unnecessary purchases. It's ok to be sad and depressed once in awhile, but overdo it naman. It's good that you're taking your time to air out your problems here in istorya, it means you're addressing the problem and finding solutions.

[akosibert]

guy i have a question...mas prefer imung friend tabang nka probs or sa pysh?

[topaz]

depends sa imong cofindence man guro..
ako mas prefer ko friends.. atleast attach man ka sa imo friends.. sometimes man gud psych approach you professionally na lang. no emotions attach.on the other hand, it's best pud cause they can give you a more sound advice..

[akosabni]

guy i have a question...mas prefer imung friend tabang nka probs or sa pysh?

in your case bro, friend lang para gamay ra ug gasto

i have also a question for you, pila mo sa inyong pamilya? does everybody thinks the same way as you do? i mean , did your family had a serious discussion on the 'family problem'?

... questions d'ay

[akosibert]

@akosabni....4 mi im d eldest...feel nko dili ko maguwang. akkong mnaghud feel nko ako maguwang. murag bali. wala mi discuss about family problem. ganahan ko maguwang para nko i sturya tarong. I tell u honestly....My fathers cousin, so uncle nko cya. mas maguwang cge ro ug 4 years old. sauna ra to. karon ko ka meet nya nag tubag na word...KUYA ko niya. Nag bisita cya sa amo sauna mag kuya ko niya feel ko murag akong maguwang. and he past away i think mga 8 or 9 years ago.

[akosabni]

maayo nga naa kay igsu-on. talk to them, kamo ra ang maka-sulbad sa problema. kamo ra magtabangay para ma-sulbad ang problema. kay kamo ra directly affected sa inyong problema

mao ra ni akong masulti, kong na'ay problema na'ay solution
kay kong wa'lay solution d na matawag ug problema

[cebu1029]

do you have to see a psychologist?