
Originally Posted by
radiostar
murag lisod ni dah... or karma lang jud ni nako?
it's not true that you can't change someone. that's why i disagree with alexxx when he said you CAN'T change someone. you CAN change someone to your own liking. it takes effort, and it's a challenging task as well, unfortunately. don't say "karma lang jud ni nako" coz remember bro, you've put yourself in that situation and nobody else. you chose the girl, not your mother.
here's one thing you have to remember, and i apologize if this may sound unique to you ------> "action speaks louder than words".
when your gf told you "nag change na siya" but does exactly the opposite, then that's a red flag right there.
hey, are you very in love with this girl? if not, then you can dump her arse as soon as tomorrow. there are a heck of a whole lot girls out there far better than her. if you think she's the one, then hey, fight for it. if you love the girl, her past won't matter. but tell you what, these things that she's been doing now? that can't go on. you have to confront her about it and give her options.
give her two options:
1. if she won't stop fooling around, you'll have to leave her arse.
2. if she really loves you, then she'll do what you want. if she doesn't cooperate, then dump her.
chad