Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[Ljane]

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hay, lisod jud kaau ni infairness..time heals

[alexxx]

having problems about moving on from relationships? i might help you...

i have background about psychology. i focus on training and and organizational development but i also do counseling and guidance. i can help you if you'll allow me

willing to discuss things on fone or in person

im just willing to help

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[EntrePinoy]

@kismequik21

mura man nemo gibasa ang akong utok. same man kaau ug situation pero naa lang koy + nga problem. pero sa ako its been 3 years na pero same ra gihapon akong feelings. lisud maytag ma amnesia ko oi. hehehe.

[kismequik21]

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[kismequik21]

I know your advices are all great and true and that's what i should do...but it's so easy to say all those things..I tried all those things but he's still stuck in my head...It's like everything, i mean literally everything i see reminds me of him. Even the TV commercials for the company he is connected with reminds me of him. It's like everyday I am being tortured. Sometimes I just don't want to get out of bed because I know that when I get up, I will be constantly reminded that we once were together and that I no longer have him. Although I know for a fact that he does not have anybody new. The reason for the break up was that "He was simply not ready for a commitment". I mean what the h*** is that reason?!

[diem]

[color=navy]^^"He was simply not ready for a commitment" could be just the typical way for saying that "He was not happy with you" or "He's not just content with you."

Just consider that if you made him really happy through and through, he would stick with you no matter what right?

The reality of the matter is that he isn't with you. All the guy is really trying to do is to be happy in only honest way he knows how and that's by not being with you.

And now you're unhappy and you're pinning it all on him. Isn't that a bit weak? You know the right things to do, to stand up and move on but hey it seems you're just being content with your misery. Then that's okay, because as the Good Book says, Everything has a season. Like seasons, your present emotions will pass, but if you keep holding on to them like a child holds on to its mother's dress then the emotions will remain.

You're strong, I think you have an idea on how strong you are but it's just easy to be weak, isn't it?

[mastersun23]

there's a technique used to conquer fear called "Immersion"
its simply immersing yourself in the state (eg immersing yourself in things na maka pa remind nimu about your ex) until it will no longer have its hold/power over you. I don't know if it will work with relationships coz i havent tried but there's a good logic behind it. I just feel its useless to run away because the only way to get rid of it is to face it head on.. just my 2 cents.

[emperadorse28]

ai dah.... dghang beer dha sa tindahan oi... beer ray tambal ana... hehehehe

[Motownkid]

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muriatic jud para derecho na... hahaha

[emperadorse28]

^
muriatic jud para derecho na... hahaha

hahaha dli man para hikog bro.. para man lumos....