Career/Work vs. Relationships

[kyuusai]

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love prevails over all

can be but not all the times...

[twalalyn]

i think you can't have both but you can balance them...

[cALai_aDiE]

i think both

yeah, i agree.. both..... especially to those who are attached na.... 'coz to much time for career would only place a good relationship in danger... pero too much attenton and time sa relationship, di pud maayo, kay wala na mo kaonon... toinks!! bitaw, dili nasad mo mo grow parehos kung mag-evolved na inyong time sa isa't isa nalang jud... point is, dapat balance lang...

sa mga unattached, career siguro pilion sa mga taong dili pa stable sa life.... pero kung stable na ilang life, mangita na sad guro na sila ug partner to share a good relationship with oi...

korek ka dyan te!

[Musette du Coudray]

i'd rather be happy and loved than rich and alone..

yep, in the first few months of marriage, mao ra man gud na ang direction sa inyong life, and you thought na in-ana ra jud.... but later when financial burden starts to fill in, diha na magsugod usahay.... me and my husband never make money a big issue sa among life, but i had to say, from time to time, money had been the reason of some of our arguments.... labaw na kung magsugod na mo padako ug baby, lisod na kaayo i-budget.... that's why i say it's better na there is balance between love and career....

This has been happening to my parents also. I didn't understand at first but when I started earning on my own, I got the scene. If you really love someone, would you rather see that person suffer? I don't think so.

[darkevilunicorn]

i agree w/ u P-chan
and here's a worst scenario.... "You tend not to have both."

you tend not, if you're not willing to try, but you can if you want.... here's how: get the best job you can (kanang gusto jud nimo nga ma-fulfill jud imong gusto sa isa ka career), save most of it for your family/family to be (save enough na maka-support nila), give a little more self-sacrifice (dili na palit mga luho...ek...ek... panagsa nalang), and at the same time, DON'T SPEND MORE TIME SA WORK and BARKADA, instead whatever extra time you have, spend it for your family/or partner and for GOD... if you can do all that (which is not so hard to do), then you can definitely have the perfect relationship there is...

EXACTLY!!!!

[bengerboy]

This has been happening to my parents also. I didn't understand at first but when I started earning on my own, I got the scene. If you really love someone, would you rather see that person suffer? I don't think so.

same here!!!

[Musette du Coudray]

Make an ultimate sacrifice, that is. Do everything in moderation.

[funky_yen]

i'd rather choose both because i want to have a successful career and also have a good and perfect relationship...

all of us we really needed that way...

[jack_d_wack]

a perfect relationship should be everyone else's career...

[Musette du Coudray]

A perfect relationship for now... it has been too damn long but I ain't letting go of my career too.