"Nagpaliwat ay": On Illegitimate children

[boliklik]

akong auntie girl
naglisod sad ana
dugay na sya sa gawas sas nasod pero ang kaso niya dire jamo gihapon mahuman

akong auntie girl
naglisod sad ana
dugay na sya sa gawas sas nasod pero ang kaso niya dire jamo gihapon mahuman

mao ba? sa akng mom kay 2 yrs raman, 1 yr ra gani ta 2 pero cge man ka resked, mao hasol kay cge balik2, ako man ang witness sa ilang case & powerful man daw akng gipagsulti mao kadali ra kaau mao sad nag tago2 mi ron kay hadlok lagi mi

dats one reason why medyo turn off nasad mi sa men and marriage most of the guys we know are abusado, walay batasan, tapulan, daghan pa babay nya wlay work

gwapa mi pero bogo wen it comes to men hehehehe

[omad]

isn't this selfish on your part? here you are thinking about yourself, about your welfare, about your well-being...

BUT

when do you start thinking about the right of your child to have a father, not just a biological one but a day to day, 24/7 figure that guides him in the right direction? why is it always ME, ME, ME? what about your child? would you always be there when his classmates asks him where his father is? what happened to him, why he is not with you? would you always be there when people in school asks him about his father and his whereabouts? would you be there always to defend him when he tells everybody about his existence - that his mom just wanted a baby just for the heck of it and doesn't care if you were born out of wedlock? that mom just had *** with a stranger so that she can have you, what a selfish %$@&. put yourselves in your kid's shoes and see if you'll like all those people looking at you with pity.

what would you tell your kid when he asks: "how did you and dad meet?", "did you love each other when you made me?", "am I a mistake?"

if I were your future son, I would be happy to know that my mom loved, got married and tried to make their relationship work but failed rather than just be a LOSER and a COWARD who never tried to love at all. would you be happy if your son called you a QUITTER? would you be happy if he calls his dad a GOOD-FOR-NOTHING-SCUMBAG?

so what if every one else around you failed in their marriage? does it mean that your future marriage is also bound to fail? are you guys just resigned to the scenario that men and relationships are just not worth fighting for? or you are just LOSERS in real lives that you're conditioning yourselves that what you are proposing is acceptable, that what you are implying is NORMAL? that you are afraid to fail that's why you are afraid to take risks?

and I thought life was about the journey, I guess not. think about the welfare of your child first if you're really selfish enough to do this.

[necrotic freak]

selfish indeed.. gurls wakeup! if you really love your child... ang uban man gani bata tawn na problema pangita sa ilang amahan/inahan. kamo nag prupose man nuon daan ug broken family..

[nadine eidloth]

mao ba? sa akng mom kay 2 yrs raman, 1 yr ra gani ta 2 pero cge man ka resked, mao hasol kay cge balik2, ako man ang witness sa ilang case & powerful man daw akng gipagsulti mao kadali ra kaau mao sad nag tago2 mi ron kay hadlok lagi mi

dats one reason why medyo turn off nasad mi sa men and marriage most of the guys we know are abusado, walay batasan, tapulan, daghan pa babay nya wlay work

gwapa mi pero bogo wen it comes to men hehehehe

ayaw ka guol kay daghan ta nga ingon ana.
kami gali pamilya man unta sa mga free sa eskuylahan pero ang uban namo naanakan lang gipangbiyaan
kay lagi bobo mubo ug emotional quotient.

[nadine eidloth]

selfish indeed.. gurls wakeup! if you really love your child... ang uban man gani bata tawn na problema pangita sa ilang amahan/inahan. kamo nag prupose man nuon daan ug broken family..

boss, dli man ingon ana among pasabot
ang among gusto puede ra tipon ug puyo in a house
basta lang no signing of marriage contract kay hasol ang process sa annulment
langay sa oras ug gasto pa.

ang pagpirma sa marriage contract langay langay lang sa oras ug kwarta kung magpa annul na.
kung nagkahinigugmaay lang, walay angay ikahadlok nga biyaan ug magdugay gyod ang pagpuyo.
ang marriage contract usa lang na ka papel nga nagdala ug kasamok ug perwisyo kung dili na magkauyon

[gnox]

Marriage is a sacred sacrament. It is not a waste of money or time. It is a covenant between you, your partner and the Lord.

[nadine eidloth]

Marriage is a sacred sacrament. It is not a waste of money or time. It is a covenant between you, your partner and the Lord.

mao diay na dude nga nitaas ang rate sa mga nagpa annul karon sa?

[paumart]

ako, naa baya ko plano magpaliwat ra sad. pero dili sad ingon ana oi nga idawit nako ang nakaliwat sa responsibilidad. kayanon nako, pero kung ilhon sa amahan dili sad nako ihikaw.

You got a point. Give me your number then.

[paumart]

pero ganahan ko nga naa ko anak
sayang man sad ang akong mga paningkamot kung wala magsunod
ganahan ko ug babaye nga bata
okey raman sad ko kung hulaman sa amahan
okey ra kung stay mi in one house'
okey ra live in in short
basta dli lang ko mopirma ug marriage contract

We have same bird's eyeview. Are you welling to bring the guys name for your child?

[necrotic freak]

mao diay na dude nga nitaas ang rate sa mga nagpa annul karon sa?

kinsa mana sila? mga celebreties?