be FRIENDS first.
and learn to communicate. no secrets!
sa wala pa unta mag minyo,nagklarohay unta sila daan... nga andam ba gyud ka if unsai mahitabo in the future sa atong kaminyoon, kay dili na baya ni ma-uli pa..like sa ako X-gf before maayo kaayo siya... so,syempre ako sad gipakita sa ihaya ang ako kaayo nga maslabaw pa kaisa kaayo niya diri nako. until ni abot mi ug 4 yrs...hantud nagka liv-in mi, diha nako makita ang tinoud gyud niya nga batasan..... so, mao to nga nagpasalamat ko nga wala pami makasal sa simbahan..kay nakita namagud nako ang tinuod gyud nga color sa ako X-gf.so what i did, ako siya gi prangkahan... tapos akong gibuwagan.... wala na koi mahimo,kay naka decide nako... mao to nga gi bc nalang nako ako kaugalingon...until now,wala nako nangita ug new Gf,but after niya...naka uyab pako ug taga call center & public teacher but wala mo work,wala ko ganahi...so.. naka ingon ko nga dili diay maayo mag dali-dali...kinahanlan klarohon sa gyud nato ang atong feeling ug mao na ba gyud na...kay lisud kaayo ug makapasakit ta ug tawo wui...![]()
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Give and take... what the two of u used to do that made the 2 of u happy katong uyab pamo, buhaton gihapon ninyo.
when problems come always bear in mind that love conquers all.
lastly, make sure that in every argument or sabot2x, ang last word naa jud sa husband. the last word is "YES DEAR"..![]()
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naa usahay nga mawala na ang tanan i mean ang lve...kalipay...gana sa *** kay ang tanan nipadolong na sa ubos ........nya labi na ug walay sulod ang kaban sa bugas buslot pa jud ang bulsa.....the pressure in ang marriage life and in a family life relationship plus the in-laws problem.......mahimo wala na juy gana pero kun ato hinumduman ato cxommitment through thick and thin kalipay ug kasakit makapadayon ra jud ug me enjoy r jud ang married life to the fullest....not just a lot secret.............
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maytag inyo na ingnan ako parents ana oi.. hahaha
respetoay sa usag usa, magtinabangay labi na kron krisis na, mahal na ang panaliton........
respect, be faithful and dont lie... so far effective sa akoa... ahehe
I'm speaking from the the wife's points of view,
kay 3 yrs naman ming kasal sa akong bana.
And all i can say is , within those 3 yrs of kaminyoon,
makaingon jud ko nga malipayon ko sa iyang kiliran....
Very harmonious jud among pag puyo.....
12 Secret Recipes:
1. the ability to make each other laugh
everyday....HUMOR
2. thoug,while at work, find time to call each other,
how she's / he's doing....
3-5 mins call wont hurt...COMMUNICATION.
3. always bring your wife to a dinner to any restuarants,
watch movies, going to park,picnic... DATE
1's a week at least.
4. when she's mad at you, a humble "Sorry",
HUG and an unstopable silly KISSES ( until she smiles again at you )
really works out. And talk things over....and she'll open up.
5. Always ask for her opinions, always listen to her thoughts
and acknowldge/appreciate her ideas....
6. Always kiss each other Goodmorning, Goodnight,
Goodbye (when off to work) &
Hello (when coming home from work)
with "I Love Yous"..... LOVE
7. Despite and inspite ur busy/ tiring schedules at work,
surprise her with things she didnt expect from you
.....jewelries, gifts,flowers, cards etc....once in a while.
THOUGHTFUL
8. When she's feeling sick,stay by her side,
serve her some meals, spoon feeding her is really very sweet
it makes her feel better and somehow helps the fast recovery.
TLC
9. Always make your shoulders availble for her tears to fall....
There is always a child within us.....let her BE sometimes...
and from there you'll see the simplicity of her innocense.
10. Be honest and loyal to her.....be her bestfriend.....
11. Healthy and Happy sexual life= Happy married couple
12. And in return......your wife will love you more than
you will ever know......
hope this helps......
Originally Posted by victory
hahay.. miski d ko minyo tawn.....
- be the best of friends = ACCOMPLISH THINGS TOGETHER
- share secrets / problems = OPEN to EACH OTHER
- let GOD be the center of your lives = A FAMILY that PRAYS TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER
- respect begets respects = DONT CHOKE HER / HIM .... ALLOW SOME BREATHING SPACE
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