Will you tell him/her you slept with someone else?

[khymm]

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why imo man pud na gibuhat in the first place na kaslonon naman ka? ma hurt jud na imong fiance...
if he asks, tell him the truth. diha ang sukdanan if he truly loves you..
if wa siya ng-ask, keep it to yourself until makaya nimo

[angel_ish]

why imo man pud na gibuhat in the first place na kaslonon naman ka? ma hurt jud na imong fiance...
if he asks, tell him the truth. diha ang sukdanan if he truly loves you..
if wa siya ng-ask, keep it to yourself until makaya nimo

its not me...its my friend... ehehhehe

[spydersaint]

nganu mo sulti man ka niya? nahan ka mabuwagan ka? or you wanna tell your fiance the truth para mwala iya trust nimu? hhmmm.. thats really hard... but, at least noh wala pamu naminyo... so, i guess dili nah dako pa kaayo nga sin... jst make sure once youre tied up already it wont happen again...

+1 so dili nalang magsaba, dili lang sad magpasakop... to think you'll lose the trust of your partner, niya lisud kaayo na pabalikon sa same height of trust niya nimu as before... sorry nalang jud... or depende rajud sad sa unsa ka forgiving and forgetting imu partner... IMHO lang...

[esprugodoys]

in my own point of view, why tell the partner that you did it when it will only cause chaos, trusts to fall apart, relationships to get ruined.... the only thing you can on that is repent, and find a way to prevent that from happening again if its your current relationship you value much over anything else.

the thing in this kind of action is..... there is no excuse for doing it... you cant just say i did it coz i got so drunk blah blah blah... as others do.

you wont engage into this if you did not decide to do it from that back of your head.... right from the start you met the person there was already a feeling/urge or lets say curiosity. especially for men its not common to have this kind of feeling when we see someone so hot, stunning, gorgoeus, etc... that feeling wont stop until we got to do what our curiosity wants to do over her. ingna ko bakakon kng wa mo k soway ani mga bogoy dha.. hehe.. same thing goes for women, as well... ingna ko bakakon or place a minus on me if this kind of situation wala ni n happen ninyo.. you met this so jaw dropping, neck twisting, mka ulbo ug kaspa nga laki.. wont you dwell on him for lets say a minute or two s inyong day for him.

its the curiosity of something we cant have that keeps this urge.. hehe..

[katezu]

Will you tell him/her you slept with someone else?
no, never.

[esprugodoys]

dili mn jd n bsta kamo p... pero if inig dayon n gani buwag.
yagyagan n dayon ka s tanan mga binohatan. sus tawn.

[doom_angel]

yaw nalng day,

bisag madawat pa nya ug mapasaylo ka niya, makuhaan jud iya pagsalig sa imo, gubot lang imo makuha kung mosulti ka

[bebeqlubq]

This question applies to me but the only difference is HE is not my fiance yet, he's still my boyfriend. But I guess, that's not a big deal of what our relationship is now, whether a fiance or a boyfriend. What matters most is I slept with someone else while I am with my current boyfriend and so I can answer the question. I know that it was really a mistake but I've regretted it and asked my boyfriend to forgive me. It wasn't easy to do, to tell it to the one you love that "hey I have cheated you". I really don't want to let him know at first because it was months ago that it happened and what I believed in was "to leave the past behind". It was an unnecessary information for me to tell it to him. But I just told him because in the middle of our conversation one time, my tongue suddenly slipped (maybe it was meant to happen). Then there I told him the story that before me and my official boyfriend got together seriously (officially into the relationship) I was dating this guy, an officemate of mine. When were "on" with my bf, me and that guy still see each other because we were in the same building, same team, and it wasn't just so easy to forget him undeniably. I knew it that it was unfair for my bf because we were just starting to build a healthy relationship back then, ME?, I was cheating him as early as that, but I just made a mistake, human as I am - I was confused of whom do I really wanna' be with?! I just want to make sure if I made the right decision to commit with my bf or I was just making him to be my excuse so I would have a reason to forget my fling, the guy from the office, since our status was blurry ( he has an ex-gf that he was still dating while we were dating and me again , i had already a boyfriend - so complicated!).

Then I have no choice, I have to tell my boyfriend the truth since it bursted out my mouth so I have to stand firm with it and begged sorry for it was a big mistake that I really regret. Of course my boo didn't know how to react with it. I can say he can't do anything else but just cried. I felt really really sorry for him for it was really wrong. It took us weeks to resolve the issue, weeks of grief and sorrow, weeks of unclear communication, weeks of ?!? I can't explain. He wanted to see me but he won't talk to me because he just can't. Those were the times that I almost gave up with our relationship because I don't want him to suffer just because of me - cheating on him.

But thank God that we surpassed that terrible conflict. From that time on, I've promised myself and him that it should never ever happen again..and that time every secret we had in the past which we think could ruin our relationship NOW, should be said then, so that in the future there will be no reason for us to have that same big fight again since everything has been said already.

[esprugodoys]

This question applies to me but the only difference is HE is not my fiance yet, he's still my boyfriend. But I guess, that's not a big deal of what our relationship is now, whether a fiance or a boyfriend. What matters most is I slept with someone else while I am with my current boyfriend and so I can answer the question. I know that it was really a mistake but I've regretted it and asked my boyfriend to forgive me. It wasn't easy to do, to tell it to the one you love that "hey I have cheated you". I really don't want to let him know at first because it was months ago that it happened and what I believed in was "to leave the past behind". It was an unnecessary information for me to tell it to him. But I just told him because in the middle of our conversation one time, my tongue suddenly slipped (maybe it was meant to happen). Then there I told him the story that before me and my official boyfriend got together seriously (officially into the relationship) I was dating this guy, an officemate of mine. When were "on" with my bf, me and that guy still see each other because we were in the same building, same team, and it wasn't just so easy to forget him undeniably. I knew it that it was unfair for my bf because we were just starting to build a healthy relationship back then, ME?, I was cheating him as early as that, but I just made a mistake, human as I am - I was confused of whom do I really wanna' be with?! I just want to make sure if I made the right decision to commit with my bf or I was just making him to be my excuse so I would have a reason to forget my fling, the guy from the office, since our status was blurry ( he has an ex-gf that he was still dating while we were dating and me again , i had already a boyfriend - so complicated!).

Then I have no choice, I have to tell my boyfriend the truth since it bursted out my mouth so I have to stand firm with it and begged sorry for it was a big mistake that I really regret. Of course my boo didn't know how to react with it. I can say he can't do anything else but just cried. I felt really really sorry for him for it was really wrong. It took us weeks to resolve the issue, weeks of grief and sorrow, weeks of unclear communication, weeks of ?!? I can't explain. He wanted to see me but he won't talk to me because he just can't. Those were the times that I almost gave up with our relationship because I don't want him to suffer just because of me - cheating on him.

But thank God that we surpassed that terrible conflict. From that time on, I've promised myself and him that it should never ever happen again..and that time every secret we had in the past which we think could ruin our relationship NOW, should be said then, so that in the future there will be no reason for us to have that same big fight again since everything has been said already.

that was a very good decision which only shows how responsible you are in your relationship and that you have the determination to make your current relationship work. and with that you deserve to given a plus.
i hope every women has the courage like you have to share every secret they have with their bf/fiance/whatsoever to prevent same arguements in the future. there is really a big difference when both parties are really that honest to share what they have done in the past, though it might not be that important but its one way of letting your partner who you are.. and there is more to that...

[cebu1029]

yes i did!

but i still came back to her!