JOSHUA HARRIS -- All about his lovelife views, his books...

[etsirkoid]

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i've read his books -- i do agree to some of his ideas but i think he took it too extreme... i think it is bec. of the culture in their place regarding dating...

[oblationkid]

Love feels all right. But we must also think and be willing to wait. In the meantime, we will pray and we will wait. The kind of waiting that looks up trustingly to God. He thoroughly understands our need of a companion for life, just as He saw and provided for Adam’s need at the dawn of creation.

That we should pray, consciously pray, for our would-be life partners is quite a revelation to many Christian young people. The fact of the matter is, some Christians are praying all right – but praying too late. Before asking God for His choice, they have already chosen. How can God possibly reveal His preference in this situation? Our prayer is an exercise in futility unless we are willing to set aside the specific person we are praying for, if that is what God should reveal us to do. But in many instances, we are not willing. And so we pray not to find His will but to ask Him to approve the choice we have already made.

[simoncpu]

Curious ko, why is premarital *** a sin?

[twelve11]

i've read his books maybe twice especially the i kissed dating goodbye. to tell you honestly, there's apart of me that somehow makes me sad. Coz i think i'm missing alot of things and experiences that boys and girls should experience. But somehow i am thankful for reading this book coz it made me realized that i should guard my heart and willfully wait for my partner. I saved myself from those sleepless nights,bulging eyes (for crying) and havin drama. God will give you the perfect partner @ the ryt place @ the right time.

If were to choose i would gladly wait for a decade(ayaw pud) for the right guy to kiss me rather than bein kissed by a hundred guys in a year.

try mo listen ani..Saved yourself by Sensefield.

[bb.kate]

i also read boy meets girl and i kissed dating goodbye.
my aunt had me read those, and guys, she is 30, single, pretty and sexy, plant manager pero never had a bf, she waited for the right one daw.. hope he'll come.

[m1000]

^^ she's too picky... naa gyud guro na siya lista sa mga qualities... hahaha pero sa imperfection man ka learn kun unsa ang tinood na love... char!

[oblationkid]

Let's enjoy the season of singleness as a gift from God, after all, singleness brings opportunities in life that may never come around again, right?
Finding the right life partner is a matter of working to become the right life partner, trusting God to cover the "who" and "when" issues.
Patience is tough; purity is a struggle. God's grace is available.

[shimiyu]

Choosing to stay with her was arguably the more mature decision I've made, compared to sitting around, fumbling my fingers, and eyes looking to high heaven hoping God will drop another girl on my lap.

if you're a girl.... it's sadly a different story.....