To work or not? A dilemma for many moms

[BloomerBeak]

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same dilemma here. but right now, wala akong choice. we are just starting, and if i don't help out with the expenses, basin wala mi maayong future.

[Velvett]

because of the instability of marriages nowadays, financial experts always advice women to have their own money. in the U.S., divorced women suffer greater financial setbacks than their male counterparts.

[7DMM]

if i'll get married i'll allow my wife to work not unless she decides to stay at home and watch over the kids.when pa kaha ko?

now that i'm married i'll still allow her to work.mahal ang panaliton and it helps na naa pud siya ug work. i have my parents to look over my baby now that they are retired.volunteer man pud sila

[khymm]

ako if nana ko kids, nahan ko mu work gihapon. Tabangan nako ako hubby

[Dyna18]

cguro i will just find a job nga less demanding or kung pwede naa ra sa balay... kung pwede tanan nako time ihatag nako sa akong anak...anyway, contented naman ko ug simple living...

[kiekim]

i worked for seven yrs then stopped the moment i had my 2 kids bec. of a delicate pregnancy aftr dat wala nko ganahi balik ug work...its my choice to be a sahm inorder to personally take care of my little darlings kay panagsa na kau kasaligan ang mga yaya kron pero if mudako2 na cla,mangita nko balik ug work!

[sheeshcute]

when i do get married, i would opt to stay home and take care of my baby. pag nagschool na siya, then I guess pede nako mangita work.

[fhm_lady]

I've been thinking about this lately..im really confused. I lost my first baby when i started working 2 years ago. He was only 11-month old, he died just 2 days before his 1st birthday. He was diagnosed with severe pneumonia. I blamed myself for what happened, for leaving him behind, for not being able to look after him when i was at work. Thats the reason why i resigned from my job. Now, i'm eager to work but i just had my second baby last january and I don't want leave her. Til now, i still dnt know what to do.