Can a guy fall for a "flabby", cute and smart girl?

[trainermarie]

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Here’s the deal: i got separated from my hubby. i met this new guy, though not a hottie but a cutie. we dated but i think he is not into me. call it paranoia but i felt that this guy and almost all the guys ive met in my entire 187 pound-moments are the same. They just wont stay. They are not for keeps and I have this strange yet “trust me” intuition that men wont just fall for women like me. So what I did was I went to yoga, and I lost a few pounds. Wear “like me” dresses and it worked. Now I have a few “can we have coffee sometime” invites from hotties and cutties. Whether you are a guy or a girl, do you think that men really go for “sexy,pretty, and dreary” women or “flabby, cuttie and smarty?

[wsraxe]

of course they would and why not? guys who won't fall for you are shallow. think
of it this way honey, its their freaking loss...i'm not kidding.

[neomorgatory69]

We men go for looks first. It doesnt sound good but its true, its human nature. But it is NOT just looks that makes us fall in love with someone.

[ohmygod]

Here’s the deal: i got separated from my hubby. i met this new guy, though not a hottie but a cutie. we dated but i think he is not into me. call it paranoia but i felt that this guy and almost all the guys ive met in my entire 187 pound-moments are the same. They just wont stay. They are not for keeps and I have this strange yet “trust me” intuition that men wont just fall for women like me. So what I did was I went to yoga, and I lost a few pounds. Wear “like me” dresses and it worked. Now I have a few “can we have coffee sometime” invites from hotties and cutties. Whether you are a guy or a girl, do you think that men really go for “sexy,pretty, and dreary” women or “flabby, cuttie and smarty?

i like you

[leng]

smart guys go for smart women, sweetie!

[xtian_hero]

flabby cuttie and smarty, was the girl I dated before.. and i really liked her... i made a mistake though.. but the answer is..

yes... maybe not most of us.. but some of us though....

jsut to let you know.. we also get easily attracted to.. sexy, hot, pretty, and smart...

[ronna]

yeah ofcourse! what catches their attentions are sexy, smart and hottie girls.
I once caught thouse attentions before hahaha, and one of them is my baby.
now, a little flabby but i dont care with what i look anymore, as long as you're confident that you still look and feel beautifull, inside and out that's it

[bulbwire]

kong akoy pasultihun..kong unsay ihatag sa kahitas-an dawat sa wlay kusmod.

[dubioz]

Of course they can, but they have to get to know you first. And how do they get to know you unless you catch their attention?
So if you're looking to turn heads, then shape up! Otherwise, rely on your social skills.

I agree with the poster below, it might not sound good, but yes, guys will always look at the girls who look great first.

..... as if girls don't look at the good looking guys first.

[Velvett]

go, go marie! hehehe