How To Keep Romance in a Relationship, Alive and Strong Through The Years?

[twinkle]

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ChaosOrb: whew.. it really break my heart reading that story.. i know that's exactly our major probs.<.INTIMACY> the thing is i dunno how to start ..how to open up the communication...lisod for me maybe bec. of pride, dba their's a saying it takes two to tanggo.... feeling nako wer both stranger living in one roof...if it's not with our kid maybe i gave up na...

[Evol]

if i'm not mistaken then you guys got married at an early age. if i'm right then you start from there. maybe you just missed lots of things being singles. if i'm wrong then PM me your YM id

[mitch_a888]

try to get a high time of communication by asking your hubby a little of his time to talk what went wrong in your marriage...

[P-Chan]

how about doing something together.. maybe a sport or hobby...

[twinkle]

try to get a high time of communication by asking your hubby a little of his time to talk what went wrong in your marriage...

how will i approach him?? i don't wanna sound louy... and what if he turned me down or he desn't wanna talk about it...i can't take that...what if he think their's nothing wrong wt our marriage or he's just insensitive i really dunno what he think of our present situation ...

[twinkle]

if i'm not mistaken then you guys got married at an early age. if i'm right then you start from there. maybe you just missed lots of things being singles. if i'm wrong then PM me your YM id

hi... i got married at the age of 23 not that young and my hubby is 27 at that time... but we've been steady for only less than a year then get married ..

[doomsweek]

do "it".

[chellee]

ive read a book HOW INTIMACY BE REGAINED? the ans is simple but not easy: the wall must be torn down. one must go to other and say, "ive been thinking about us and i have realized that you are not all of our problem. ive been looking back at our marriage and thinking about the times that i have failed u, i remember quiet a few. i would like to remind u of these,and i would like to ask u to fogive me" The moment u are willing to admit ur failures and ask forgiveness, the wall on ur side comes tumbling down. if ur spouse chooses to forgive u and in turn acknowledge his or her failures, the wall turn down on both sides, and INTIMACY returns almost immediately. In order to keep the wall torn down, we must practice acknowledging our failures as quickly as possible after they occur. None of us is perfect. From time to time, we will disappoint our spouse, but if we are willing to acknowledge our failures and ask forgiveness, we can keep the walls torn down ... hope this can help..

[iLuVarcher`d`great]

pursuing ur dreams yet havin each other as inspiration wud really be a plus factor! dats wat we r doin everyday and everytime we aspire on somethin.

[twinkle]

chellee: thanks for that advices.. still i really think we need to have a marriage counseling, for farther explanation , what u think? can anybody tell me who and where to go for marriage counseling thanks to all of u guys...