HELP Akong GF, MABDOS siya.

[happy_free]

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Bro,

I know lisod kaayo imo situation run. Getting married just because you got ur gf preggy is not always the solution. What's important right now is you, the baby and your girl. Pero pinaka importante is the baby jud. Remember, the way you attack a problem speaks who you are. If you are thinking about abortion, then you are running away from your problem. Embrace the problem and find solutions. Basta ayaw lang jud anang abortion.

First, talk to your partner regarding the situation. Dapat kamo duha mo agree with what to do. Then the next thing is to talk it out with both your parents. You need people to support your situation. Pasabton ninyo sila og ayo. Siyempre ma shock sila. Lisod tuod inag una pero i think seldom ra parent mo suggest og abortion. Remember, hundreds of people were experiencing what you have experienced right now pero naka survive sila without thinking to abort. If naka survive sila then why not kamo dba? Keep praying...

[monrose29]

ma o jud... bro...... natural ra jud ng reaction sa ginikanan pero inig gawas sa ilang apo..... ma wagtang ra na.. ..

[orangepink]

adoption?? ngeks.. ayaw nalang oy. ma miss ra japon nimo ang bata!!! anyways... bai imo nang binuhatan, and you dont have any choice buhi.a nah siya!!!

He has a point. There are consequences when you decide to have your baby adopted. Some couples allow the biological parents to communicate with the child; still, you don't have a say in the child's future once he is adopted. There are many things to consider with adoption. But at least, you and your gf don't feel so hopeless anymore.

[jonz]

abortion will only result to another problem... bro at this point guidance from your parents is a must..although they are going to scold you with these............ they are still your mom and pop.. its your last resort...

think about it...dont solve a mistake by doing another.........

you can do it

[P-Chan]

ma luoy intawn ka sa bata na walay sala!...

[mokszilla_20]

pre ayaw jud anang abortion!!!! be responsible....... nyu ng binuhatan way sala ang bata...... yaw jud pre..

[grlnxtdor16]

ei, ok raba na sa imu parents why not consider telling them about it para naa sad "adults" maka tabang nimu. mas maau man gud na kibaw cla.family gud na nimu.naa gyud na cla pra mu supporta nimu. try lang gud. there's no harm in trying naman dba? wat more cud u lose?
naa naman gyud nang bata.face the responsibility. bahala na magki unsa. a babY is always a blessing. naa sad katungod ang bata mabuhi sa world.wala gud na cya sala. so... u make the right choice bai! be responsible! parent nagud ka... or soon to be! or watever

[P-Chan]

bitaw kahibaw ang inyong parents?

[gwapo_ko]

wala pa mi mingsulti, unsaon lgi namo pagsulti nga na timing man gud nga nasakit iyang papa, naputlan ug tiil nya wala na clay income ron, as in financially down jud! amoa man sad gud giconsider ang nahitabo sa iyang family. lisod jud bai, dli nako kahuna huna ug tarong. andam man ko moatubang sa iyang parents ang prob lang jud kay wa pa koy ibuhi. wa ko gikatabang nla, ako na noon nagsamot sa ilang prob.

[ysilona]

ako pa nimo... be man enough to face this... giving abortion a thought is the most coward thing that you could do.

abortion is just a temporary solution.. makalingkawas lagi ka karon.. but what about the future?say in 2 years, 3 years, don't u think this act won't haunt you? u wud be facing sleepless nights, thinking about the innocent life that you took .. believe me .. which would you prefer sa imong damgo nalang ka makadungog nga naay magtawag nimo ug papa? or wud u rather have someone call you dad .. and still be able to hug that child at the same time.