HELP Akong GF, MABDOS siya.

[gwapo_ko]

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guys i really need ur help, m gf is two weeks pregnant... willing kau ko magpakasal nya pero cya ang dli, kasabot sad ko nya kay naa man gud clay family prob, nasakit iyang papa and financially down jud cla and cya na lang jud ila gisaligan... naglibog na gyud ko ug unsa ako buhaton. gusto nya ipakuha ang bata, kung ako lang ang makabuot,kung amoang lang kaugalingon iconsider dli jud ko mosugot nga ipakuha.
guys, pls help me....

naa nagsulti namo nga naa daw tambal pwde e tyk cy**tec name... asa man ta ana kapalit? kinahanglan ba ug prescription?

[orangepink]

naa nagsulti namo nga naa daw tambal pwde e tyk cy**tec name... asa man ta ana kapalit? kinahanglan ba ug prescription?

Are u talking about the abortion pill? If you are, I'm advising you not to take that w/o consulting an obgyn. Naay nursing student na nag duty in community hospital, she wanted to abort the baby so she stole some pills and namatay na lang siya. also, I'm a totally against abortion.

If dili ninyo kaya financially, don't get married. Have you both considered adoption? Try searching for adoption agencies in the net. Many foreigners (like americans) are willing to adopt asian babies like in China. Who knows, giving your baby up for adoption is the best thing for both of you. Take for example, will.i.am of the black eye peas. basta, abortion is never the answer.

[gwapo_ko]

yeah! she wants to abort our baby. wala jud koy knowledge about ana nga tambal, nakablo ra mi sa iyang frend kay mao sad gigamit sa iyang frend, mahadlok jud btw ko unya kay iya mang gusto, dli sad ko gusto magdugang2x sa iyang prob kay in a first place ako jud sad an ani jud... kblo nako nga ing ana mamugos pa jud ko.

[monrose29]

gwapo ko..

bai deli sulbad ang pa pa abort sa bata.. huna2x usa.. kong unsa imong buhaton... talked to your parents.. mas ginahanglan nimo ang ilang advice.. kong nahadlok ka nga masuko sila.... natural ra jud na sa usa ka ginikanan labi na kong deli pa jud ka andam...

ang kasal dili angay dali2x-on.. bisan ug na buntis pa na nimo imong uyab... deli kana ma o sulosyon.. if u love each other. pede mo mag ipon lang una.. mag pundo mo para sa inyong kasal. ang importante karon ang bata... dapat makahibaw inyong gini kanan ana.. ayaw mo pag bo-ot.. basin mag mahay ra unya mo kong mahibaw ni nila.....

[orangepink]

I understand your gf's predicament. How far along was she when she told you she was pregnant? Maybe she feels hopeless and that's why she's considering abortion. As the bf, try to show her some solutions. Maybe you two could sit down and tackle the reality of it all. Like, you should have a plan a, b, c and the back up plan. You could discuss what your intentions are for her and the baby and you should state it clearly and frankly so she won't feel hopeless. She might appreciate hearing that you'll be there to support her financially. You know, when mabuntis ang babae, money man jud ang biggest problem. Basta, tell her that you'll be there 100% and be sure to live up to your promises sad. Remember, swerte mo naa moy baby, some people can't conceive and have to go through all those experiments and others resort to buying their babies.

[orangepink]

I found some sites about international adoption. You and your gf might want to read more about it.

http://international.adoption.com/
http://www.ftia.org/
http://www.rainbowkids.com/index.chtml

[nunobone]

adoption?? ngeks.. ayaw nalang oy. ma miss ra japon nimo ang bata!!! anyways... bai imo nang binuhatan, and you dont have any choice buhi.a nah siya!!!

[junenine]

how about if you will help her financially with her family problem... instead of helping her to get rid of the baby.

[gwapo_ko]

how can i help her financially nga wala pa man ko work kay studyante pa man ko... mao nay akong prob

[monrose29]

bai... kasabot man ko sa imong side... huna2x-a sa ninyo og ma ayo... pag talk mo duha.... sayang ka ayo ang bata bai... basin pa diay maka sabot ra inyong mga ginikanan......