Career/Work vs. Relationships

[monrose29]

hay ma o na pod na akong problema karon...

why man gyud girls lisud ka ayo pasabton bah..

sama aneh karon nga deli me prehas og schedule... unya akong work kay 24/7 on call... usahay na-ay mga unexpected meeting..

i spend time with her every after work kada adlaw... then usa lang ka txt message coz sometimes occupied ka ayo imong deli ka pananghid kong asa imong lakaw.. dako na ka ayo nga away...

sama aneh karon nga nag sabot me mo la-ag nig out namo duha... but kalit lang patawag og meeting akong boss...mang lo-od napod dayon.. mo exlpain napod ta.. mag away nasad.... unya deli sad kalikayan nga maka tubag pod ta.. patulan pod nato ilang pag pang lo-od.. until mo abot sa break-up..

gamay lang unta nga consideration bah....

deli gyud ninyo ma sabtan nga dapat mo trabaho ang lalaki para na-ay ika gasto sa iyang gf.. kay ma ulaw sad me nga mag pa buhi ninyo labi nag og dako mo og sweldo kay sa namo...

deli nalang gud unta mang lo-od bah kay masabot ra man gyud nga nga situation

ma watangan og trabaho ma wagtangan pa gyud og uyab..

ambot oi.. libug nako...

[kiwiboy]

just remember NEVER exchange your work for your GF, daghan pang babae mo sabot. and if no work bsn dli nindot inyo future.

definitly! some girls just don't understand...
gusto nalang ila tanang time...

[foxyvain]

balance is d key...

if u can't balance, then expect one of those two will give up.
or worse is, u might end up losing both.

[smooth]

hay ma o na pod na akong problema karon...

why man gyud girls lisud ka ayo pasabton bah..

sama aneh karon nga deli me prehas og schedule... unya akong work kay 24/7 on call... usahay na-ay mga unexpected meeting..

i spend time with her every after work kada adlaw... then usa lang ka txt message coz sometimes occupied ka ayo imong deli ka pananghid kong asa imong lakaw.. dako na ka ayo nga away...

sama aneh karon nga nag sabot me mo la-ag nig out namo duha... but kalit lang patawag og meeting akong boss...mang lo-od napod dayon.. mo exlpain napod ta.. mag away nasad.... unya deli sad kalikayan nga maka tubag pod ta.. patulan pod nato ilang pag pang lo-od.. until mo abot sa break-up..

gamay lang unta nga consideration bah....

deli gyud ninyo ma sabtan nga dapat mo trabaho ang lalaki para na-ay ika gasto sa iyang gf.. kay ma ulaw sad me nga mag pa buhi ninyo labi nag og dako mo og sweldo kay sa namo...

deli nalang gud unta mang lo-od bah kay masabot ra man gyud nga nga situation

ma watangan og trabaho ma wagtangan pa gyud og uyab..

ambot oi.. libug nako...

SAKTO kaayo ni bro!! mahurot nalang imu laway ug explain.

[newstarb_again]

ha 24/7 nga work?
unsa d i work nmo? labaw pman sa nurse kng mg on-call...

[daslutopan]

patagad man jud ning mga bae labi kong below 30 pa na gurl.. lampas na gani mo agwanta jud kay hadlok mabiyaan.

work lang og maayo naapay daghan ana nila..

[esprugodoys]

sometimes kulit jud ning mga babaye.. or it so happen lang nga akoy na ay work cya wala.. mostly.. what i heard nga na a jud conflict ning work og sa gf.. but for me it depends ra man cguro both of you...in my situation before cge lang ko ka late sa among date... because of my work kanang na a dina li an nga trabaho... usahay ma traffic.... then ma o to starting sa among lalis... she told me i dont have a time for her, trabaho na lang permi...then i tell her deli man sad puyde akong time tanan na niya... so guyssss help me to get through this behhhh. basin maka uyab di-ay kog balik...hehehehehehe..

kon maka uyab man galing ko pilo on na lang sad nako na ay work oii para prehas ang laban....

boss with this topic... we have same exact scenario with my current gf.
the only difference is we both are working. worst is in a call center p jd which schedules are not fixed jd.
lisod jd kaayo if ever ang girl dili mkasabot s situation mag cge lng jd ug lalis.

[sandie]

hay ma o na pod na akong problema karon...

why man gyud girls lisud ka ayo pasabton bah..

sama aneh karon nga deli me prehas og schedule... unya akong work kay 24/7 on call... usahay na-ay mga unexpected meeting..

i spend time with her every after work kada adlaw... then usa lang ka txt message coz sometimes occupied ka ayo imong deli ka pananghid kong asa imong lakaw.. dako na ka ayo nga away...

sama aneh karon nga nag sabot me mo la-ag nig out namo duha... but kalit lang patawag og meeting akong boss...mang lo-od napod dayon.. mo exlpain napod ta.. mag away nasad.... unya deli sad kalikayan nga maka tubag pod ta.. patulan pod nato ilang pag pang lo-od.. until mo abot sa break-up..

gamay lang unta nga consideration bah....

deli gyud ninyo ma sabtan nga dapat mo trabaho ang lalaki para na-ay ika gasto sa iyang gf.. kay ma ulaw sad me nga mag pa buhi ninyo labi nag og dako mo og sweldo kay sa namo...

deli nalang gud unta mang lo-od bah kay masabot ra man gyud nga nga situation

ma watangan og trabaho ma wagtangan pa gyud og uyab..

ambot oi.. libug nako...

F ur gf really luvs you, she will understand and she should understand ur situation...she should be considerate enough!you, on your part, might as well talk to ur gf heart to heart!char! explain to her that u need to work bcoz if u wont, what will ur future be? that's what my bf did when we were on the same situation as you do...he was so busy preparing for his board exam...and im also working...he is only available on sundays and im available on tuesday's and wednesday's...even if i dnt have enough sleep on sundays i still manage to go out with my bf...it wont hurt if u sacrifice a bit for the person u luv the most.....!!!my bf sad aftr his exam iya sad gibawi ang tym na la nya nhatag nako wen he was still busy...

give and take lang gud

[esprugodoys]

F ur gf really luvs you, she will understand and she should understand ur situation...she should be considerate enough!you, on your part, might as well talk to ur gf heart to heart!char! explain to her that u need to work bcoz if u wont, what will ur future be? that's what my bf did when we were on the same situation as you do...he was so busy preparing for his board exam...and im also working...he is only available on sundays and im available on tuesday's and wednesday's...even if i dnt have enough sleep on sundays i still manage to go out with my bf...it wont hurt if u sacrifice a bit for the person u luv the most.....!!!my bf sad aftr his exam iya sad gibawi ang tym na la nya nhatag nako wen he was still busy...

give and take lang gud

good for you mam coz you were able to understand the situation. my story with my gf right now is the same as monrose's. we already talked about it for soooooo many times already. i kept explaining to her everything about work. then what she does is just give a straight face for a minute or two then boommm! there goes the preaching.. what i really feel so mad whe she preaches is that she keeps on reiterating that im giving more importance to my job than her. i mean what should i do then? jeopardize my work for her request?

known for the fact that its our sole responsibility as men to look for a job to accomodate the needs and wants(if possible) in the family. why cant you women understand that? my gf is also working, we are on the same type of industry (BPO). schedules are really subject to change anytime, and somehow our schedules hardly matches.. but she knows that everyday after work. i always go home straight and wait for her to get home too so we can at least talk on the phone. its just not seem enough for her... sh'e's just so stubborn to understand what the real deal is.

[mrs_sipi_mr_yoso]

my take on this..

I think girls should understand, specially if you can see that he's trying with all his might to give you the quality time that your relationship needs.. Makita man na nimo sa guy if he's really sincere in giving time for you..

But sometimes naa sad jud guys na immature kaayu. They always reason out that they are so busy. And the reason seems too overused. Can't they make time, even single text nalang to let their gf's know that they are still alive..

I have this friend, sobra e take for granted sa iya bf, imagine almost 3 weeks na wa ni reply sa texts and calls, wa jud bisan usa ka communication from his bf.. so my friend thought na basin nakakita na ug lain. all of a sudden after the 3rd week nitawag and niingon na sobra daw siya ka busy mao na wala siya ka reply.. WTF!!!??!!

And acted as if wala siyay nabuhat na sayup?? If this case ever happens to me.. I think wala na jud siyay gf na balikan.. He's lucky that my bestfriend is one patient girl..