@limunsito
well you could have just laughed the whole thing off. imo untang gi ingnan "hahaha.... luoya gud nimo." change topic dayon.
the sad thing here bro is, uncomfortable na man ang babae since kahibaw man siya nga naibog ka niya. every move you make from here on out comes off as threatening. so how do you do fix that? convey active disinterest. as i have mentioned, active disinterst means ACTIVELY showing that you are disinterested in her, writing you off as a potential threat. kanang magstambay2 ka sa kilid unya di managad niya is PASSIVE disinterest. Active disinterest goes something like "di gyud ta pwede magkauyab, we have too much in common."
but the better solution is to completely forget her. start seeing others, pang diskarte na oud sa uban. kalimti tong bayhana. but mean it. dili kay "ah mudiskarte kos laing babae para maibog siya nako". that's not gonna happen. don't try to be a relationship repairman. focus your time in building new relationships, instead. and learn from your previous mistakes.
devoting too much time to this "one special girl" is a downward spiral. i cannot stress enough how destructive to one's self this pattern is. once you find yourself on the "one special girl" path, get out. remember, you're not acquainted with the girl on a deep, personal level yet. don't fall in love with her prior to that. give yourself a little more value. know that you deserve only the best, so when you talk to a girl you are interested in, you should not hit on her. investigate first whether or not she is good enough for you. don't turn the girl into a goddess. you'll only hurt yourself that way.
bay perhaps i can explain it to you better in full detail thru e-mail, but you must promise me not to share with anyone the stuff i will share with you.
that's it for now. god bless you all.
love,
isteb