HELP Akong GF, MABDOS siya.

[Dyna18]

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celebrate life... naa pa pud bag-o moabot. ipakita nga u are a proud father to be.

[Tamblot]

There is nothing to fear. It was both your decision in the very first place. If both parents know nga mag uyab mo, then they are suppose to expect something such as that to happen in the future. only thing is, that future is now.

There would be feeling of surprise and anger and everything. mangluod. masuko. even to the extreme that parents would neglect you or abhor you. But trust me, no parents can bear the days of their life not seeing their grandchild.

Once that baby takes his or her first breath, lolo and lola would be more eager than the parents to cuddle with the baby. Look at the bright side bro. Same with your GF. I think mas okay if you talk to your parents as early as now. Keeping something inside and worrying is not good for your GF considering that she is pregnant. It has somehow a psychological impact on her and the baby.

[rudjard]

bai kng serious gyd ka sa imong gisudlan, naa naman gyd na bsan unsaun nmog balibad mo burot naman gyd nang tyan sa imong uyab. ako lng gamay sugyot ninyo mga bag.ong ni enter nu kai naa bya nai saktong proseso ang pagmamdus sa imong uyab. pasabot nko ang iyang "pre-natal" kihahanglan kau ni labi na sa imong baby brod kai diha gyd ninyo masugdan ang pag-atiman sa inyo unyang umaabot nga baby.

mau cgro magsugod nakag ipun para unya sa 7-9 months nga pangbayad sa hospital. para cgro mkamenus mo sa gasto try mo kuhag mga packages sa mga hospital.

kanang pagsulti ninyo sa inyong mga parents nagtangag gyd nag KASABA pero sa karun lang na kai naa paman gyd na sila sa state of shock. sagdi lang bro molabay ra gyd na tanan "basta mo kugi lang gyd ka" nya ipakita sad ninyo sa inyong mga parents nga mo move on namo nga desidido gyd mo mobuhi sa inyo unyang anak. gud luck...

[rexter]

in my case bro, gikasab.an me sa among mga parents ngano daw karon lang me gasulte (6th month i think) ky tabangan lage unta me og pa package inig delivery. sos! bugha noon 22K sa VCMC... pa package namo daan bro and ayw sa VCMC ky mahal ra.\m/

[d`monyita]

i totally suggest that you consider taking a package deal sa hospital since you did say nga your gf basically ang gabuhi sa iya family. mas mura.

i had mine sa cebu doc. but go shopping for package deals.... and especially ask kung pila ila charge kung CS... i think you have to do that BEFORE the pregnancy is 4 months. so hurry. ok man lang...di man maunsa inyo baby if residents atiman nya and ur gf. hehehe. my son turned out more than fine. i am blessed.

do you have to marry? not really.... if you love each other... maybe... but i still firmly believe that a pregnancy is a reason to jump into marriage. as the father, YOU MAKE SURE that you take care of half the expenses...if puwede more pa gani kay the baby is with the mom 24/7.

you will definitely incur the ire of the parents...more the girl's parents... and hmmm... not all the time maulian bya ang mga parents. i know of one...till now... her mom still tells her that she is an embarrassment to the family.... so where is the healing there? luoy noh?

give your gf 101% moral support... she is the one carrying your child. she needs to be stress-free as much as possible. for the sake of the baby.

it is not going to be easy... parenthood is permanent joy and pain... save na kayo... dili lalim ang expenses.

[LytSlpr]

ayaw pag minyo kay abi na mabdos, mas dako ng sayop. sukda usa ang kalawmon sa inyong gugma, kung mo usbong gyud taliwala sa kalisod diha na pag minyo.

kini ra bang gugma kuno mag sugod sa biga, inig burot masapawan sa konsensiya ug kaluoy. inig kalinaw sa tanan, biga ra gyud di'ay to.

[angel_ish]

tell your parents about it.. never never hurt the baby...

[erichoy]

btaw sad... sakto na ilang mga advice brod....

[d`monyita]

ayaw pag minyo kay abi na mabdos, mas dako ng sayop. sukda usa ang kalawmon sa inyong gugma, kung mo usbong gyud taliwala sa kalisod diha na pag minyo.

kini ra bang gugma kuno mag sugod sa biga, inig burot masapawan sa konsensiya ug kaluoy. inig kalinaw sa tanan, biga ra gyud di'ay to.

hehehe. dahan dahan ko kaya binasa ang post mo....

[erichoy]

ahahaha.. btaw nakasuway ko ana pro d mabdos akong uyab... hehehe.. biga ra dyud d i to.. hehehe