HELP Akong GF, MABDOS siya.

[zer0_cooL]

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mygosh...! grabeh sad mo duha uy... nagtuga-tuga mo ana then wala mo moconsider sa consequence sa inyo action.... tell me kuno unsa ang nabuhat sa baby para inyo ipa abort? i know na naa cla prob pro its not valid enough na ipa-abort ninyo ang baby....

[gwapo_ko]

i know i committed a mistake, a very big mistake! thank you guys for your advices, i know you will never understand coz you are not in my shoe, it is easy to say that but once you are in a situation na moingon jud ka nga lisod.

[mitch_a888]

nobody is to be blamed at this time. i would suggest that hopefully both of you have the guts to talk your parents about what you are into right now. remember that bad karma will take place once you will decide about the abortion. it's not a mistake that you got your gf to be pregnant. the baby is a blessing. i can relate with your situation because i have lots of friends with your age having the same dilemma. think...

you're too pissed now & can hardly think of a solution..just pray & refrain from thinking of abortion..

[hot_chick]

pa imna na cya mahugani..

[Sanosuke]

Brod.. pasensya na ha... pero mao na g ingon nga "Ngano ni enter.."..

Love is a responsibility, much mor is ***...

U shud stand for what is right.. let the baby grow.. stop being a child, bcum a man ok?

ang inyo choices duha raman..

1. U allow the baby to grow, possible it u might experience hell on earth because of the problems of our economy...

2. Or abort the baby, both of u will burn in hell for the rest of ur lives...

which one wud u prefer?

I may not experiencd it, bt I know a girl, at 20, na pregnant cia but she never turned down the gift... Wla cla nagkadayon sa lalaki... She stopped school for 2 yrs to take care of the baby, after 2yrs school ciag balik.. She graduated, went to work on a low income job.. still she moved on..

Now at 29, she's just waiting for the US embassy to call her for an interview.. She's a nurse and a yr from now, she and her 3 kids and her husband will go to the states...

[mitch_a888]

pa imna na cya mahugani..

i would suggest to grind a halt in thinking about the abortion..

[alas]

be a man and stand to what you believe is the right thing to do. i bet ya dont even have a clue what do after you start humping your girl. you should have thought about this consequences before you engage to something stupid!

[xxbanbanxx]

sa tinuod lang dle ni problema namong duha kay ganahan man me nga naa baby. ang problema lang namo unsaon nako pag sulti sa akong ginikanan nga mabdos akong uyab ug unsaon pud niya pag sulti sa iyang ginikanan nga mabdos siya? sapag kakaron kay dle pa mahibal-an kay dle paman kaayo dako iyang tiyan. dle lang sa namo huna2on ang mga reactions sa among mga parents total eg ka klaro sa iyang tiyan nga dako makabalo naman na sila. para nako ok ra tgale sa akong parents nga mabdos siya pro wala palang gyud koy guts nga mo sulti nila. nya ang side pud sa akong GF kay murag kuyawan me kay siya man gud ang sinaligan sa ilaha nya makabalo lang sila nga mabdos siya. unsa man ang angay namong buhaton parehas ming duha wala guts mo sulti sa among mga parents pro ganahan nami nga naa baby. hehehehe... [br]Posted on: February 10, 2008, 02:02:47 AM_________________________________________________t abange ug tambage akitch.. hehehehe..

[ChaosOrb]

state your current status, undergrad pa mo? working na? student pa?

Kung student pa...AYAY!! Pagka lisud gayud. Kung student pa mo, inig estorya ninyo sa inyong parents kailangan naa mong duha, aron maka.support mo sa usag2x emotionally kay ang tanang klaseng kasaba madawat jud na ninyo, maoy nay tinood nga mahitabo. Labi na ang imong GF ang sinaligan sa ilang family, murag mag.lisud jud ug dawat ang mga ginikanan sa imong GF ana.

Mas maayo kung sa imong pag weigh nga mas makasabot ang imong family kay sa sa imong GF, mas maayo nga sa imong family lang sa mo mosulti nga pregnant na imong GF. And make sure nga mosulti gani ka sa imong family kailangan naa jud imong GF, para maka.support cya nmo in case makasab.an ka. Dawata lng jud ng tanang kasaba nga inyong madunggan, ayaw mo ug tingog, utong lng jud kutob sa mahimo, wait till mo.subside na ang reaction. Then discuss your future plans ninyong duha sa imong GF with your family.

Now, it is important to contain the issue lang sa within the family para dili mokatag ang issue, kay wala pa raba nakabalo ang side sa imong GF. Lisura aning sa pikas side wui, but all I can advice is, when telling the parents of your gf, make sure nga naa jud mong duha, make sure that everyone is in a good mood. Gather every strength then pop the big surprise, again, naa man jud na violent reaction, ayaw lng jud mo ug supak, ayaw lng jud mo ug kontra, huwata lng jud nga mo.subside na ang tidal wave, then, discuss your plans. Make sure ang inyong plan favorable sa ilang anak and sa ilang family nga dili pud ma.agrabyado ilang anak, babaye baya ng ila.

Mao ra na akong ikatambag bro, sayon ra sa pag.sulti, pero naglibog sad ko gamay unsaon wui. Good Luck with your pamalayi...SHALL WE RING THE BELLS?

[Velvett]

- be courageous and responsible so you two will get your families' respect

- some family members may feel bad and not talk to you or whatever, but remember, it's your life.

- sinaligan siya sa ilaha? she is not their parent and she has the right to live and support her own life. her family should better support themselves.