Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[crush_23]

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Let me throw in this questions to you guys...

Can you move on if you and your ex are just best of friends nalang?... and you still go out together.. (but only as friends nalang jud ha..) just the two of you... Frequenting the places you went to before when lover's pa mo.

Is it necessary to have ill-feelings ba jud to move on.. or you can still go out w/ him or her (kamo lang duha) but as friends nalang. ? diba lisod? The love might still be there...what if your partner has already move on and you can't pa... can you still go out w/ him or her as 'a friend' nalang jud?

i think possible man guro mahimo bespren ang ex...y not!

[joshbonz]

so possible to go as friends ra jud? frequenting kamo rang duha to the places you went out before (kadtong time nga lover's pa mo), only now mag discuss nalang mo'g topic totally not too personal or emotional in nature.. like how's work, friends you know (your friends and his/her friends)

I know it's a torturing part.. but can this really work out as going and dating as 'friends' nalang jud? wala paman 'mi' mga bf/gf sad..

the hardest pill to swallow is acceptance... that im sure of..

[akosabni]

^joshbonz

if it works out ... meaning dating as friends ... would you be happy on this? is this what you want?

[crush_23]

keep urself busy............work, work and work

involve urself in sports...badminton, swimming

jogging ka abellana makarelax pa!

[The_Gadore]

you typically undergo a couple of phases before you can actually move on.... but this only applies to individuals who are really in love...

denial - it's been days/weeks since you've broke out... you shout to the world that your okay but deep inside it's chaos. you go out often. you party. you drink... and then in one of those night outs when you've had a couple of drinks already, pinoy darma "maalaala mo kaya" show begins... you cry in front of your friends and telling your friends you are still in love...

anger - you just hate the person. and what's ironic is that the cause of your hate is your love. the painful and stingy lovin' feeling... "you rot in h*ll you darn-arse-nincompoop... i hate you.... waahh"

acceptance - suddenly you wake up one morning and feeling light... you see your ex and it doesn't matter that much anymore... you just don't give a damn about it... you can already look your ex in the eye and feel nothing... it's because you already accept the fact that it's over... and you know what it means...

there is no definite time frame going over through these phases... it will depend on the individual...


this is your kuya kim saying "laging tatandaan ang buhay ay weather-weather lang"

[joshbonz]

@akosabni

if your asking if im happy with this kind of thing bro.. no and yes.. no because we are not having some special union already.. yes because at least.. i still see her often and knowing that she doesnt have someone pa to replace me.. makes me at least happy with her going out everytime we go together...

i dunno.. its complicated.. but the feelings are not there na jud.. - this is for sure...

[neomorgatory69]

Keep yourself busy and find something/someone to focus your attention. It wont happen overnight, but the feelings will fade. It always will.

[mastersun23]

BE The person you were before you got into the relationship.
You were happy before you met him/her. You just have to find yourself.

Keep busy. go Out. Its hard but its worth it.

[christa]

learn to forgive yourself..for what you have done..and what you haven't done..

peace starts from yourself..

just pray a lot and keep urself busy..

[zney25]

go out with your friends...have fun...

love youself.....

get busy...with work...hehehe

thats what i do....