Thanks.
I also read the posts, and am hoping for better continuation.
I suspect some posts, no matter how irritating these may seem to the receiver, may have started out as a well meaning "help" (though the receiver may not really need it). As the saying goes, 'The road to "hell" is paved with good intentions.' It is not always the case that one's intent is translated well into language. If the intended "beneficiary" reacts then, the "sharer" might feel unappreciated. If the reaction is strong enough then, an argument may be triggered.
I have had my share of experiences regarding this. At first, it annoyed me. Later on, realizing it's part of life, and admitting my own imperfection (made similar mistakes), I somewhat got the hang of it (tolerate it). This gradually helped me realize that there is a difference between a person and his or her behavior. The person will remain but, the behavior can change. I therefore always have hope for everyone (including myself). People don't have to be the same person in the future as they are today. Perhaps, enemies today may be friends tomorrow.
I guess, that's enough mushiness for one post ...