Martyrs for Love?

[ronna]

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o yes i am!!

he once told me that he doesnt love her anymore..
he assured me..
he was serious...
he said he will give up everything just to be with me...

i believed him..
despite the situation...
though i dont want him to give up the things he said he can give up for me..

just to fnd out that he was texting her sweet messages..
i quit.. i ended the relationship..
he asked for another chance..
he made a promise..
i gave him another chance....

lately.. his phone was always off when he's with me..
i asked..
he explained..
i believed again..

i know there's somethng goin on..
as a MARTYR..
i still continue to love...
and cant say no everytime he will ask me back...

from a certified MARTYR.. happy new year!!

haha.. same tempo.. but i quit.[br]Posted on: December 31, 2007, 08:50:48 PM_________________________________________________

To communicate or not to communicate, to win her back or not to win her back...

After all that she did... would it be worth it to keep her and be with her for the third time or not?

Would it be possible that despite of all these predicament that we had, love can show its ways?

Would it be worth keeping for a person who did something wrong to you, but still you want her to be back in your life?

Is this a sign of martyrdom?

yes it is, and it is also a sign of love.

not so long ago, i posted this message in one of the threads here..

it really hurts when..

when you are there with him...
she (the other girl) called.. they talked...
you listened... you covered your ears.. you dont wanna listen... it's killing you.....
you pretended to sleep.. but their voices echoed like thunders in your head.
until you tried not to breath.. and good it helped... the next thing you knew..
you fell asleep.. unconsciously...
and he hugged you like nothing happend..

it always feels good and complete whenever you do something out of love.
but time will come when you realize that everything is not worth it, that other person can never love you back and things will never run the way you want them to.

learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.

if that other person is for you, God will lead you to him/her in a smooth way.

[vienzel]

one component of love is forgiving...its not just how many times u can forgive a person but its HOW MUCH U CAN TAKE...i said this because, often times people do take forgranted the chances given and so wud end up doing the same stuff or even the worse. we all do make mistakes but if see the person is not trying to improve him/herself, then it's is time to let go...dont wait long!

i wud understand, when one hopes for the better or thinks that things might change in the future...if ul take the person back. hey, open ur eyes...change does not come from outside but it should be the person involved who should do it and it does not take years to just make a simple step towards betterment of a relationship. if u see signs of not being receptive, then things will never change at all! one thing will happen though...u wud not just realize that u have lost a piece of urself! ur self regard?

[rainwax]

by nature najud sa girlz.........

[mrs_sipi_mr_yoso]

..it really bothers me why we gurlz feel this way..bisan bali-balihon ang world, martyr jud ta! y man??! let's sort out those reasons kuno beh..

I think depende sa tao ra jud ni xah..

Ako, not so martyr type. Mapride ra kaayu ko to be classified as a martyr.

I'm a martyr in a lot of things... but not in romantic love.

[-CL-]

would it be ok for a girl to be martyr for love? i mean dli ba mas luoy pa ang girl magmartyr2x kaysa kung ang guy?

watya think?

(if nanay thread ani, can somebody direct me to it? thanx! )

[akosabni]

para na ko, ok ra ang martyr ... kong mao ni inyong kalipay, kinsa man ko mo pugong ninyo

[Ljane]

ok ra mag martyr basta naa lang limitation

[sputnikyze]

nganu magpa martyr man sad?

[frenchfries]

dli man martyr jud.
nahan lang jud sya mo hold on.

[Quesò]

thats gOod