in love, always expect that pain is the BITTER half of happiness, one can't survive without the other... so when you love someone, be prepared to receive both the worst and the best things that could happen. if the wind changes its course to the uglier and painful half, learn to let go and feel it.... maybe in letting go, you can realize that you have a brighter future to look forward to without him/or her... or better yet, maybe the one who hurt you will learn how important you are to him/her once he/she lost you...