Do we need to give up the family if a spouse cheats?

[akosabni]

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i'm sorry, that you have to go through all of this, but nobody said that life would be easy

i think your a strong person, you decided to leave your husband and actually left him

focus on your life now, your kids need you

i don't understand, why you think, luoy ang kids, they just left hell

unless, of course you have second thoughts, and just making an excuse "for the sake of the kids" to return to him

whatever it is, please decide what you want ... its your life and your kids

[lolzlolsy]

i'm sorry, that you have to go through all of this, but nobody said that life would be easy

i think your a strong person, you decided to leave your husband and actually left him

focus on your life now, your kids need you

i don't understand, why you think, luoy ang kids, they just left hell

unless, of course you have second thoughts, and just making an excuse "for the sake of the kids" to return to him

whatever it is, please decide what you want ... its your life and your kids

thanks for your words.... im just sad cause of course my kids are looking for him... but i know we'll get ove r this... im ok

[akosabni]

i'm glad that you're ok

it was a pleasure chatting with you ... bye for now

[jingardz]

no. life goes on whether hubby's here or not.

[vipetesz]

for me magpa ka martyr ko para ma save lagn nako ang name nga " family"...my reason is for the kidz...magpaka buta bongol nalang siguro ko...pero f di gyud mausab or di ma konsensya...why should i...biyaan nalng gyud...hehehe

[grlnxtdor16]

im not married or anything. but so u may know i experienced this with my father. he cheated on my mother. with the MAID pjud. uwaw sultion but its the truth. iya g kabit ang katabang. it really hurts. dako naman gyud ming mga igsuon pero wala ghapon gbyaan sa ako mom akong dad. it sucks because what he did was a total disgrace. pero g dawat nlng pod namo xa. afterall kung mu condem pd mi nya luoy man pd. human sad bya xa and he made a mistake. after that horrible experience i could say nga we are a closer family now. and we're all trying to move on.

[Gwynhuever]

@lolzlolsy...i admire you for being strong not only for yourself but also for standing up for your kids....dili ko agree anang martyr effect...kay in the long run apektado gihapon ang kids kay ma feel man ang friction between sa parents...mas maayo pa ang clean break and tarongon pag explain kay mas naa pa chance nga managko nga dili dysfunctional.....ang importante ma explain to the kids nga mama and papa can not be together anymore but we both love you so much....nya dili ipa layo or i-brainwash ang kids to hate the father....dawaton lang ang kamatuoran nga wala jud ni work ang marriage and go from there....

mawala atong self respect anang yatak-yatakan atong pag ka babaye oi...di lalim! kombati jud sis...ayaw paminaw sa mga holier than thou attitude nga mosaway sa imong desisyon....do what you feel is right ...listen to your heart!

[IT]

igo sad ko ani da... sakit man... dili ko ka explain why.. he do that... period.

[jangoironic]

depende ra na nimo kon kaya nimo maging manhid pero kon di buwagi iexplain lang sa bata unsay binuhatan sa imo bana

[lolzlolsy]

@lolzlolsy...i admire you for being strong not only for yourself but also for standing up for your kids....dili ko agree anang martyr effect...kay in the long run apektado gihapon ang kids kay ma feel man ang friction between sa parents...mas maayo pa ang clean break and tarongon pag explain kay mas naa pa chance nga managko nga dili dysfunctional.....ang importante ma explain to the kids nga mama and papa can not be together anymore but we both love you so much....nya dili ipa layo or i-brainwash ang kids to hate the father....dawaton lang ang kamatuoran nga wala jud ni work ang marriage and go from there....

mawala atong self respect anang yatak-yatakan atong pag ka babaye oi...di lalim! kombati jud sis...ayaw paminaw sa mga holier than thou attitude nga mosaway sa imong desisyon....do what you feel is right ...listen to your heart!

thank you...thank you...thank you....

as of now...everytime i think about the time that he keeps on throwing his hands on me all i feel is...."haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy".... i've moved on... and this time i can say that i do believe in karma... he has all the misfortune in life...im not saying that im grateful for his misfortunes now but it's a matter of realizing that everything that you do to others will go back to you ten times...

im alive again...im me again..not that whole...but already picking up the pieces...