Love VS. Parents and the like

[twalalyn]

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14343:hahahaha...di sad oy!

[cottoncandy]

Does his/her family's approval matters when it comes to your relationship? Can you stand being the cause of a family feud? Or being tagged as Family enemy # 1 in case they vehemently disapprove of you? Are you going to leave the relationship and forget about "love"?

What are you going to do then?

[aDikted^m]

for me? i dont take it as a reason for me to forget the love i have for the person. Even tho in our culture it really matters, but each person has the right to be happy with his/her life or lets say the right to love the person that he/she likes. As what they say love conquers all ..... Dont let go just because of this reason.... But then try to communicate with the parents and try hard to build a good rapport with them. It may take a long time but for sure the results will be great.

[darkevilunicorn]

Makarelate sad ta.........mine was different........it was the other way around that happened 2 years ago.........it was my family who disapproved this person........

I made a good fight for that "feelings"......we ended up meeting without my familys approval down to not going home after work just to see that person.....then to big fights over my mom and brothers to "Layas" galore and all those stuff..............but after 6 months of endless struggle we both decided to separate ways.....i resign from work,change contact #,(it was a mutual decision) went to the north just to forget the whole thing then after sometime get back to Cebu and start life again........

I recently saw the ex few weeks ago after 2 years......we exchange hi and hello.....kmustahan and exchange #s again.....the feelings is still there but is not ready to go back to same old routine(still a mutual decision).......when i get back to those days.....i can only release a *sigh over and said that it was a very exhausting experience but i dont feel sorry about it.........Mao na giingun nga Life goes on........the ex now have a partner while i am happily committed with someone else........

So.....ang nahingtungdan.......Good Luck........Try it, di ba di lalim.....

Peace out........

[justerini]

This one's a classic.

Yes I do still go out with her even if her parents disapproved. But I would spend a good deal of psychologizing to learn why or what. is it me, my family background or maybe the idea of a relationship that they disapproved of. with this i would know where to concentrate my energy and win their approval. that is if i really love the girl. otherwise, it's all not worth it.

[psyche_08]

I dont think I can stand to be the cause of a family feud. I mean if I do love the person, I wouldnt want to ruin his life and I never wanted to compete when it comes to family. I can still love the person from a distance, right? Though I havent experience this yet, and I would know if its easy so I'm open to your opinion.

[voluptious]

its part of the challenge...u have to go for it...if you really love each other...u can bet all odds..

[cottoncandy]

its part of the challenge...u have to go for it...if you really love each other...u can bet all odds..

and ignoring the threat and the possibility of being disowned? :8O:

[14343]

......hala kalami anang dago2x.......

[zyLe]

if the guy is worth it...why not...