Hi,
I just wanted to get your advice, inputs, insights about my situation as it has been a bit stressful for me from time to time.
I'm planning to uproot my life from the City and go back to the province.
The very reason for this is because my parents are already in their senior years and I want to be with them as much as possible.
Because of the pandemic, I decided to buy a simple house near to my parent's house. This way, the house can serve as my quarantine area since we don't have the facilities mentioned by IATF (own CR for those who will quarantine).

My mother is the one doing all the leg work since I'm unable to go home and me being reluctant to go home just yet because I'm afraid I might bring the virus to them (I have not been diagnosed with COVID but I'm just not taking risks).
Upon purchase, we hired carpenters paid daily and we learned that there were a lot of issues with the house to the point that we almost changed the entire structure.
It has been months since I started sending my hard earned money (roughly more than 500K in expenses) and until now, it's not yet finished.

Sometimes, my mother and I would argue when I follow-up because it's been so long and I've sent a lot of money already.
What stresses me out so much are the surprise repairs like the recent one when my mother mentioned that there is a crack in the wall in the kitchen, maybe needed reinforcement.
I was so frustrated about it because as of this week, I thought the house was almost done (90%) and that the only thing missing are the window fixtures. Hearing about the kitchen wall problem, that equated to me another 20-40K for the wall to be replaced.
I asked my mother what is this about and why was this brought up just now. I tried to call her but she turned down my call. Then she just replied with never mind, she was just concern because the walls looked like it has wears on it and afraid it might gave in and she just told me to just drop it.
It was very frustrating because I just wanted to know what is this additional problem and why is it just now that they're communicating it to me. Then she would react as though I'm accusing her of misspending my money.
Is it wrong for me to ask these questions?
If I ask for pictures she should send some but I can barely see them because at times, they would be blurry.
Am I not entitled to know where have my money gone?