Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[superrrshielaaa]

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it takes time jud. pero pwede mag forward? kanang pina dvd player ba... kay kapoy na cge hilak

[josephdc]

we've talked and things are okay for us right now.

i know this feels because right now i feel that all is lost. i mean i cannot find peace in watever that i do. i just broke up with my bf because my family hates him to the bone. and now my family is treating me like a prisoner im my own home. i feel so sad right now that im in a state of uber depression that i barely go out my room. i dunno right now i still have no thoughts about moving on. i guess im still in that phase where i have not accepted that its over.... (

i can imagine that the experience is a lot like losing someone in death. when you break up with someone, that person has really died, not literally but figuratively. you have to bury that person in your life before you can move on. dapat naa ju'y acceptance para naay closure. naa pu'y period of grieving. naa pu'y denial at first... sigh... it felt terrible, and even now, bisa'g nagkabalik nami sa ako labidab (thank God), slightly depressed gihapon ko...

there's more out there than bragging about the pain.. life is waiting.. make some push.

you can't really 'brag' about the pain because it's not something to be proud of. sometimes you need to express the pain in order to cope with it.

it takes time jud. pero pwede mag forward? kanang pina dvd player ba... kay kapoy na cge hilak

hehehe...

[JX]

i know this feels because right now i feel that all is lost. i mean i cannot find peace in watever that i do. i just broke up with my bf because my family hates him to the bone. and now my family is treating me like a prisoner im my own home. i feel so sad right now that im in a state of uber depression that i barely go out my room. i dunno right now i still have no thoughts about moving on. i guess im still in that phase where i have not accepted that its over.... (

sis, if i may ask, why man dli gnahan imo family sa imo bf?

[christa]

moving on..is not an "overnight" process..nor can it be measured with the tears u cried..
not even with the length of time, after the break-up or the loss..

what i think..and what i've learned from my experience..moving on is really acceptance..

after all the pain and the whole thing is over..it really isn't over yet..
questions come in.. but the answers always fall short..
anger sets in.. all the why's?..how can it be's?.. how can you's?..where is the love?..
all the unfair feelings..
grief sets in.. the feeling of nothing..no NOthing is ever the same again..

they all seem right.. but then, is it really wrong..?
i learned too, that, there is no answer to that ..

acceptance is the key to understanding..
i've learned to accept that it's over and that there are questions that will be left unanswered..
and that pain is inevitable and that grief is a silent cry..

a shout that has no sound, unheard of..but yet so loud..

the heart,after it has been broken, cannot be as whole as it was before, nor will it stay broken forever..
the recovery is up to the person..

it cannot be estimated with time, not even years..but what you do with your life in that years..is up to you..
you can either waste it away, crying for what was lost..or strive to live. no matter how painful it is..

but it will come...one day..

i know that one day, i can say that "'i've finally moved on"
one day, i will say that..

[vladmire]

moving on..is not an "overnight" process..nor can it be measured with the tears u cried..
not even with the length of time, after the break-up or the loss..

what i think..and what i've learned from my experience..moving on is really acceptance..

after all the pain and the whole thing is over..it really isn't over yet..
questions come in.. but the answers always fall short..
anger sets in.. all the why's?..how can it be's?.. how can you's?..where is the love?..
all the unfair feelings..
grief sets in.. the feeling of nothing..no NOthing is ever the same again..

they all seem right.. but then, is it really wrong..?
i learned too, that, there is no answer to that ..

acceptance is the key to understanding..
i've learned to accept that it's over and that there are questions that will be left unanswered..
and that pain is inevitable and that grief is a silent cry..

a shout that has no sound, unheard of..but yet so loud..

the heart,after it has been broken, cannot be as whole as it was before, nor will it stay broken forever..
the recovery is up to the person..

it cannot be estimated with time, not even years..but what you do with your life in that years..is up to you..
you can either waste it away, crying for what was lost..or strive to live. no matter how painful it is..

but it will come...one day..

i know that one day, i can say that "'i've finally moved on"
one day, i will say that..

grabeh ang naagi-an ni christa dah... i can feel your emotion while reading this...

acceptance and determination

[josephdc]

moving on..is not an "overnight" process..nor can it be measured with the tears u cried..
not even with the length of time, after the break-up or the loss..

what i think..and what i've learned from my experience..moving on is really acceptance..

after all the pain and the whole thing is over..it really isn't over yet..
questions come in.. but the answers always fall short..
anger sets in.. all the why's?..how can it be's?.. how can you's?..where is the love?..
all the unfair feelings..
grief sets in.. the feeling of nothing..no NOthing is ever the same again..

they all seem right.. but then, is it really wrong..?
i learned too, that, there is no answer to that ..

acceptance is the key to understanding..
i've learned to accept that it's over and that there are questions that will be left unanswered..
and that pain is inevitable and that grief is a silent cry..

a shout that has no sound, unheard of..but yet so loud..

the heart,after it has been broken, cannot be as whole as it was before, nor will it stay broken forever..
the recovery is up to the person..

it cannot be estimated with time, not even years..but what you do with your life in that years..is up to you..
you can either waste it away, crying for what was lost..or strive to live. no matter how painful it is..

but it will come...one day..

i know that one day, i can say that "'i've finally moved on"
one day, i will say that..

maka-sympathize pud ko somewhat...

it's like that line from pablo neruda's poem... "love is short, forgetting so long..."

[christa]

ako jd nang ghunatan ug maau...

ako jd nang gi-ampo..

[limunsito]

finally after 1 year xD

[shaxyra]

took me 2 years.. uh.. well almost 3 years to forget my first love...

[xtian_hero]

took me 2 years.. uh.. well almost 3 years to forget my first love...

^^wow.. thats tough...

mine was 4 years... trying to forget her... I only forgot about her after knowing that she already has a baby... 2 years of age.. tsk tsk tsk... and yet when I looked in her eyes.. there was regret.. sorrow... but there was nothing I can do.. she was already married..