My son abused by teacher

[Echelnalf]

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Wow. Paeta ani gud. Di ko ka imagine ma ingon ani akong anak. Dapat jud na ma investigate nga incident. Kung naa lain student maka testify anah, paksit jud na nga maestra. Kung nabuhat man gani na sa maestra weather intentional or not, dapat jud na niya personaLon og pangayo pasaylo sa bata para ma minusan ang trauma.

[beyee]

Call the school and set an appointment with the teacher concerned for a conference.
The conference should be with the teacher, head teacher or grade level coordinator,
subject coordinator (if the incident happened during the subject period), discipline head
and the principal. (This is the proper protocol. If the principal would get this request
from you, he/she would understand it that YOU mean business and the matter shouldn't
be taken lightly.

Prior the conference, prepare or write an anecdotal record of the instances narrated by
your child as to what happened and what actions taken by the teacher or did his/her
classmates see the incident/s. It's understandable that your child can't be specific with
the time and date but the narrative would really help a lot.

After the conference, take note who are in attendance (for your reference) then let the
teacher, coordinators, discipline head and principal sign to acknowledge that they have
the papers of your anecdotal record.

If the school won't cooperate then that's the time you write a complaint letter stating
how your concern was dealt by the school admin and how much trauma it has caused
not only to your child but also to your family as well.

Address the complaint letter to the President of the School, if they still refuse to cooperate
then time for you to address the complaint to Department of Education, make sure you also have
furnished a copy for the school out of courtesy (this is sort of a wake up call if they
refuse to cooperate)

Then wait for the actions taken.

It helps to RECORD everything, I mean in paper because that would hold some weight
on your concern/dilemma.

It's also best to take your child to a counselor so he/she will be debriefed of the whole
trauma. As much as possible, give your full attention because the child is still in his/her
formative years, if there are issues left unresolved, the child will carry the excess baggage
throughout his/her life.

God bless.

[rl]

sakita ani bro oi. hope that all things will pan out. but 6yrs is quite young and naka experienced na inani, talk to the principal or head sa school para ma settle ninyo

[ieaiaio]

im not saying it's normal pero pag elementary nako, labayon kog chalk, labayon kog eraser, kusniton akong bugan (kinasakitan), kusniton ang dunggan, hapakon ug stick akong kamot, daklon ug lampaso/bunot/butso, ipa sit on the air (ligon pa tuhod sauna ok ra).

i don't mind if idisiplina sa maistra ang mga bata pero naa usahay sobra na siguro like sa imong anak nga case.

sa asa ni nga skwelahan?

[beyee]

wala ko mangaway bai-yee ha pero mao ning naka buysit gyud noh. basta kita na gani parents ang mo complain perting daghana pa gyud ug mga churva churva.
@kokoytoyi --- nindot gani na dad-an nimo ug lawyer diretso.

best way lang jud ius is go through the process para wala'y makabikil or maingon
'matechnical" sila, paniguro nalang jud... mao man gud ni kulang sa uban moreklamo,
diretso sa kasuhay nya wala silay back up na papers to support their claims.

wala man pod mawala if mo follow sila sa process kay mao jud na ang isagang sa
school, "nano nideretso sa kaso" or if diretso mo sa deped, sus pabalikon japon
mo sa school lols

[ace101]

Ipa Tulfo na maam... sulbad dyod na.

[snake_eye]

if the "proper procedure" did not work and there was no action...then go to the media.. for sure they will do something about it dayon...

ara naman na sila mang lihok if na viral na..

[storea_ta]

Duda ko ani nga school dah...

What type of school has an "honor roll" for 6-year-old pupils? Wala kaila ug age-appropriate learning private school man unta. And I'm sure the teachers would just say: when I was your age, my teacher let me kneel on monggos!!! haha... geatay nlng.

[Vindicare]

im not saying it's normal pero pag elementary nako, labayon kog chalk, labayon kog eraser, kusniton akong bugan (kinasakitan), kusniton ang dunggan, hapakon ug stick akong kamot, daklon ug lampaso/bunot/butso, ipa sit on the air (ligon pa tuhod sauna ok ra).

i don't mind if idisiplina sa maistra ang mga bata pero naa usahay sobra na siguro like sa imong anak nga case.

sa asa ni nga skwelahan?

boss lain sad kaau ug ang lain taw maoy magpasakit sa imo anak ok ra ug ang ginikanan may mangusnit sa bata pero ug ang lain taw na dili na pwede kay dili sila ang nag pakaon ana. Matod pa ni @kokoytoyi honor roll iya bata so pasabot nindot ug status ug behavior ning bataa. Ato nalang pud ibutang nga badlungon bataa pero bright dili gihapon pasakitan walay rights ang teacher mubuhat ana.

[kokoytoyi]

HIlig kaau ni bataa mag apil ug after school activities, apil ug club, makita jud nimo iyang pagka competitive academically ug dako sad mi gasto sa iyang clubs apilan kay ganahan jud lage siya mo participate. Karon wala na, in a snap. Sakit kaau hunahunaon ba. Kung nasakitan ko, mas samot na intawn ang inahan. Sad kaau ni oi.