Thought of the most single ladies?

[Jasheika]

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True Love waits

[sugbu_00]

True Love waits

<3

[iron_cross]

gai ta ngalan ato bayhana kay ato ipabasa ning topic diri sa istorya.net aron naa pod siya feedback, hehe

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ato ipalumay, hehehe

[Dwardzed]

She is my workmate before in my previous company. That time, soud kaayu mi as workmates. I’m not sure if she is aware na I like her, pero maybe cgro naa cgro cya gamay idea na crush na nako sya.
That time d paman gud ko ready mo sulod ug relationship ky newly lang ko graduate ato and d pako gusto naay responsible. Crush lang sah nako cya kutob.
Years after, ni resign siya sa company and went back to Mindanao kay family concern. After sa iyang resignation, wa nami nagka communication kay nag ilis na siya #. Katung time, friendster pa ang uso. D sad kaayu ko ka update2x sa friendster atung time ky d ko mahilig ug social media that time. So wa na gyud ko update niya. Years later, ni resign napud ko sa company ug ga abroad ko for 12 yrs. So nagka hanap na gyud akung chance makig kita niya balik seems wla na jud communication ug layo na kaayu mi.


After 12 yrs sa akung pang abroad. Ni balik ko diri Cbu ug ga spend time w/ family lang usah. One time I went sa mall. Ug sa dihang nakit-an nako akung mga x-workmates ug uban siya. Cge pa diay sila kita2x. Na surprise ko pagkita nako nila ug niya. Gi tawag ko nila ug gi invite ug dinner. Nagka chance mi ug bonding2x and ga get together sa akung mg aka x-workmates. I got a chance to talk to her. I ask her # and fb dayun. Didto nami nagka sugod2x na ug tx2x ug msg2x. I check my fb account and I added her. I see her profile photos na wla cya mga laki ka char2x etc. Naa lang cya mga barkada mga lalaki pero I don’t think one of them na relationship niya. Ehe. I see her also na daghan cya mga ka social friends which lead niya ka suroy2x ug laag2x sa mga lain2x lugar. I see her that she is happy of her friends.


So anyhow, ga sugod2x nako tx niya. Kusog man sad cya mo entertain nako, I keep updating her kn unsa na nahitabo nako and gi kamusta sad nko siya. Tadtaod napud mi ga tx2x niya, 7-8 ka months na. Nagka cge nami ug tx2x niya and have a good conversation. Ug nagka confident nasad ko na panguyaban siya. She treat me also as a good friend so I was wondering maybe naa gyud ko chance pa.
Ug sa dihang na abot mi sa conversation na nka hisgot cya not just one time but many times especially kn mag hisgot2x mi ug uyab2x, “Maypa mag friends nalang kay d pa byaan o d mamiya”. Sa kadaghan na niya na hisgot. I was bothered ky murag She’s not open for relationship na. So I researched her kn unsa gyud nahitabo niya. I ask our x-workmates and she said wala pa daw gyud to cya nka uyab. So I was thinking why nka ingon man to cya mga ig-ato. Na surprise pud ko na wla pa cya uyab na hitsuraan man ta cya. 30+ nami and mostly mga workmates namo kami nalang duha ang nahibilin na single.

So i was thinking na close minded man diay ni cya na and not willing to have a personal relationship hilabi na single pa ni cya krun.
I ask her past d man cya pd mo tug-an and wala nalang sad ko namugos ky maybe she wants to keep it personal. So kani lang gyud statement na iyang cge gi balik2x sa akoa na murag maypa friends nalang daw ky dpa byaan. Cge niya gipa dungo2x sa akoa especially kn mag hisgot mi ug uyab2x. I don’t why nka ingon cya ana, maybe sad cgro sa iyang past experience or mostly sa iyang na observed. Na bother lang ko aning iyang statement.



Unsay thought ninyo sa iyang gi sulti guys, serious gyud cya bah na mag forever single nalang?
Dna gyud sila mo sulod ug relationship?

Gusto tingale niya dili na ka mo-abroad,
naa ra ka kanunay niya. Maayo unta un mao nay iyang gusto nga ipa-gets nimo.
I have the same experience before.

[dulasnom]

kahinay ba aning atong ts oi!
gi-challenge ra ka ana ts.
it's just like saying "if you really like me, go... if not, then don't bother"
nya sa ako sad tan-aw, medyo hinay ra kau ka!
for 8 months nga texting and kita2x, wa jud ka kapadayag sa imong gibati?
remember that you are not the only sperm when the d!ck exploded!
and that, the fastest sperm always gets to fertilize that special egg.

[firestarter]

She is my workmate before in my previous company. That time, soud kaayu mi as workmates. I’m not sure if she is aware na I like her, pero maybe cgro naa cgro cya gamay idea na crush na nako sya.
That time d paman gud ko ready mo sulod ug relationship ky newly lang ko graduate ato and d pako gusto naay responsible. Crush lang sah nako cya kutob.
Years after, ni resign siya sa company and went back to Mindanao kay family concern. After sa iyang resignation, wa nami nagka communication kay nag ilis na siya #. Katung time, friendster pa ang uso. D sad kaayu ko ka update2x sa friendster atung time ky d ko mahilig ug social media that time. So wa na gyud ko update niya. Years later, ni resign napud ko sa company ug ga abroad ko for 12 yrs. So nagka hanap na gyud akung chance makig kita niya balik seems wla na jud communication ug layo na kaayu mi.


After 12 yrs sa akung pang abroad. Ni balik ko diri Cbu ug ga spend time w/ family lang usah. One time I went sa mall. Ug sa dihang nakit-an nako akung mga x-workmates ug uban siya. Cge pa diay sila kita2x. Na surprise ko pagkita nako nila ug niya. Gi tawag ko nila ug gi invite ug dinner. Nagka chance mi ug bonding2x and ga get together sa akung mg aka x-workmates. I got a chance to talk to her. I ask her # and fb dayun. Didto nami nagka sugod2x na ug tx2x ug msg2x. I check my fb account and I added her. I see her profile photos na wla cya mga laki ka char2x etc. Naa lang cya mga barkada mga lalaki pero I don’t think one of them na relationship niya. Ehe. I see her also na daghan cya mga ka social friends which lead niya ka suroy2x ug laag2x sa mga lain2x lugar. I see her that she is happy of her friends.


So anyhow, ga sugod2x nako tx niya. Kusog man sad cya mo entertain nako, I keep updating her kn unsa na nahitabo nako and gi kamusta sad nko siya. Tadtaod napud mi ga tx2x niya, 7-8 ka months na. Nagka cge nami ug tx2x niya and have a good conversation. Ug nagka confident nasad ko na panguyaban siya. She treat me also as a good friend so I was wondering maybe naa gyud ko chance pa.
Ug sa dihang na abot mi sa conversation na nka hisgot cya not just one time but many times especially kn mag hisgot2x mi ug uyab2x, “Maypa mag friends nalang kay d pa byaan o d mamiya”. Sa kadaghan na niya na hisgot. I was bothered ky murag She’s not open for relationship na. So I researched her kn unsa gyud nahitabo niya. I ask our x-workmates and she said wala pa daw gyud to cya nka uyab. So I was thinking why nka ingon man to cya mga ig-ato. Na surprise pud ko na wla pa cya uyab na hitsuraan man ta cya. 30+ nami and mostly mga workmates namo kami nalang duha ang nahibilin na single.

So i was thinking na close minded man diay ni cya na and not willing to have a personal relationship hilabi na single pa ni cya krun.
I ask her past d man cya pd mo tug-an and wala nalang sad ko namugos ky maybe she wants to keep it personal. So kani lang gyud statement na iyang cge gi balik2x sa akoa na murag maypa friends nalang daw ky dpa byaan. Cge niya gipa dungo2x sa akoa especially kn mag hisgot mi ug uyab2x. I don’t why nka ingon cya ana, maybe sad cgro sa iyang past experience or mostly sa iyang na observed. Na bother lang ko aning iyang statement.



Unsay thought ninyo sa iyang gi sulti guys, serious gyud cya bah na mag forever single nalang?
Dna gyud sila mo sulod ug relationship?

7 to 8 months nang sigeg text2x unya mao pa nga time nagkaconfidence nga manguyab?

This is a recipe for friendzone.

Murag taas ra pud kaayo ang panahon nga imo siyang gipaasa bro. Overdue na kaayo.

[sugbu_00]

Hala Taasa na diay sa replies diri oi. Ehehehe.... Dugay2x nako wla nka visit aning thread dah. Haha.

Bitaw I'll give u update of her.

I think she is not ready, or she is not ready to have relationship. We usually communicate time to time before.
And ako cya gi ingnan na gyud that I like her. Wa cya ni ingon na d cya ganhan nako. But she replied.
That maypa friends ky d mo biya as same old line where she keeps repeating that word from our past conversations
in the messenger.

So I'll make it short. I see her na d pa jud cya ready and d ma tandog iyang heart and chooses to be a single forever.
Well I guess I see na hanap2x gyud akung chances with her. Nag enjoy2x pa sad cya ug laag2x sa mga lugar
uban iyang mga friends.
Anyway, wala man sad nako cya gi suryuso cause d sad
ko ganahan jud mag dali.
I'm still unemployed status pud, I need to focus muna searching a job for abroad.
So wla lang sah jud ko ga mind sa iyaha lang sah. And I see her na she has a stone heart.
Gi defend jud niya na #walangForever .

So I guess mao na update sa amoa.

By the way, from the past month, I stop messaging her na after and naa koy na nka ila and
ni attempt ko ug flirt2x aning new lady, while I'm still also searching a job oppurtunities for abroad.
I see this new lady naay koy chance ky ni entertain gyud nako dayun and we have go out for dinner
some other times.
While I'm also searching a job, ako pd cya gi flirt2x pero sa ka tadtaod na nako kuyog niya.
Akung feelings naa pa man gihapon sa katung old. I don't know why na mas strong man akung feeling man noun na mas layo man to cya. Everytime na mag kuyog2x mi kaning akung gi
flirt2x na girl. Ma remind nako cya and murag mingawon ko niya kalit. So this new lady,
wala lang sa ko ni
admit niya seems ga duha2x man akung feelings. So wla lang sko ni admit ky murag d pko
sure sa akung feelings. Kuyaw unya tinoud na pud ta sa new lady.

My mind is still with that past lady. Wako kasabot, murag gi mingaw ko niya.
Seems d paman ko sure sa feelings sa new lady, wala lang sa nako gi seryuso cya.
And ni hinay2x nalang usah ko distance
ato niya kay basin unya ma dayunan to cya nako.

I don't know nganu like kaayu nako cya na even I already see na gi reject na akung
pag-panguyab niya. So sometimes naka huna2x ko na maybe I'll wait nalang kaha until
ma kaya pa seems akung status karun is unemployed paman pud. I need to focus lang
muna sa akung career. If naa na jud cya ma-ibgan and nanguyab niya and gi sugot niya,
aw ok lang gi hapon. Anyway, ani man jud ni ang life.
It's time to move on and forward. Hehehe

[retryme07]

TS nka uyab nka before?seems that you don't have the balls manguyab nya seryoso.

"But she replied. That maypa friends ky d mo biya as same old line where she keeps repeating that word from our past conversations
in the messenger. " -- unsa man reply nimo ani? chance na unta nimo to let her know nga di ka preha ubang lalaki na mamiya ra.

[sugbu_00]

TS nka uyab nka before?seems that you don't have the balls manguyab nya seryoso.

"But she replied. That maypa friends ky d mo biya as same old line where she keeps repeating that word from our past conversations
in the messenger. " -- unsa man reply nimo ani? chance na unta nimo to let her know nga di ka preha ubang lalaki na mamiya ra.

Yeah naka uyab nako back college days but was last only for 2 yrs. That was my first serious relationship back 2003.
But before that serious relationship, I hve also dated for a months before ko ni sulod ug serious.

When she keeps mentioning that line na better to be friends. I replied her with a smileycon and tell her about it too also na
d pareha attitude ang mga lalaki. And also people who thinks that thought are kulang man pag salig sa ilang self.
I told her also na normal raman sad nang masakitan too, part mana sa learning process sa life and blah blah blah.
I made my self also an example na gi byaan ko pd ko sa una nako relationship because nag change na daw iyang self
ug na wla iyang love na nako kay boring daw ko na tawo. Now I know also my self kun unsa akung sayup.
So many reasons akung gi share niya but self gipangusgan gyud niya ang #walangForever na quote.
Only friends ra daw ang naay forever.

Wala lang sa ko ni comment ana na "only friends live forever" kay murag kn ako ireason out na
"Not all the time friends are there" kay basin mag think cya na BI nya ko.
I let her discourage unya of what she wants for now. Negative napud akung diskarte kun ig-anaon nako. Ehehe.

[beyee]

Your mind wanders off pining for the first one because
the mere fact you can't have her (just yet?) while the
one you're flirting with is an easy target (pardon for being
blunt) is giving you the blahhh feeling...

Hmmmm...

Don't put meaning to it.

If you're not the serious type, might as well
play the field and still date a lot of girls but NEVER
give them false hopes because that can be VERY MEAN.

Better FOCUS MORE on your plans to get a job because
that's the best thing to do right now rather go looking for
a girlfriend. On the side, go out and make new experiences,
maybe that will give you a different perspective on things and
not just simply zoning on the DATING SCENE.

God bless.