laguna (luzon) and northern mindanao - Long Distance Relationship? (

[quirkychinita]

AKO LANG IPA SHORT AS POSSIBLE:
-Sa online rami nagka friend. Dili pami uyab pero naa nami na invest na feelings.
-8 months nami nag chat, call, videocall. Sometimes ako mag call sometimes siya.
-Both of us have jobs and in our mid twenties na.
-Same mi ug religion and church pero different branch lang. (protestant)
-Nag meet nami pero only once lang kai church activity man to. Lasted for about 2 weeks pero everyday mi magkita. Last October papud. Mas nauna ang meetup sa virtual ayha ang meetup sa personal.
-I have 3 jobs at the moment. Isa ka full time tapos 2 ka pang extra2 lang.
-I plan to use my 3rd income so I can come and visit her.
-magpaabot kog promo flights siguro (5k usually makita nako roundtrip na)
-The problem is naka try kog LDR pero kana lang dugay na nako kaila and ayha pami na LDR after pila pa ka years. But I have not tried LDR na wala/once pami nagmeet.
-I plan to meet her once/twice a year or maybe more than that... ang akoa lang kai magamit siguro nako ang akong leave most likely in one year a total of one month or more siguro na leave if tingbun nako.

-If the relationship doesn't go well, well we all know asa nani padulong hehe.

-Give me some insights and mga experiences sa mga naka try ani so far kai ako wala pako ka try ani man gud. Hehe I've also read some articles about LDR pero mostly kadto man gud mga dugay na nag-ila and nag uban tapos ayha pa na LDR after pila ka years.

LDR is not easy specially if dili pa matured ug huna huna ang involved ana-ang sitwasyuna.

Paranoia and lack of trust happens not ONLY in LDR but bisag sa ga-live in na halos adlaw adlaw na maguban sa usa ka atop, and that's because of jealousy due to a shallow mind thus immaturity.

It's nice to know na lisuran kag LDR kay dali raka mingawun sa taw, that's really sweet, but that's not a valid reason nganung lisuran ang taw ana. If mingawun ka sa "BEEGA" that's not real love. Im not saying na anti-Premarital S*X ko na side, but what Im saying is sa ngan na LDR mo, mag antos ka dapat, if you really want to be in a relationship with that person bisag lagyo mo.

Intimate, Physical contact of two people nga ga LDR is something na nindut mahitabo kay mura syag FOOD na lami and mahalun and talagsa ra nimu makaon but it's worth remembering along with the good memories.

Meeting a loved one once is a while is like eating your favorite food in moderation so you SAVOR AND NOT CONSUME.


Pero if you're having seconds thoughts about LDR, ay nalang ug sugdi, either ikaw ang masakitan or sya.

[gracie7]

LDR? Is it worth it? Definitely. Being in a long-distance relationship is a challenge, but definitely worthwhile if you are committed to developing your relationship. A long-distance relationship can either bring the two of you closer together, or pull you further apart. When you are in a long-distance relationship, it's important for the both of you to know that you are equally committed to developing the relationship. Why bother being in a long-distance relationship when one or both of you are not committed? You might as well just have it be a fling and then find someone locally. So, the first precedent to surviving a long-distance relationship is to both be committed to maintaining and developing your relationship.

There will be a lot of hurdles, bumps, checkpoints in any kind of relationship, the important thing is you have a solid foundation of TRUST.

Long Distance Relationship...
More than the distance, more than the longing, more than the affection you are missing.
You will realize how lucky you are that there is someone who can love you from a distance.
That there is someone who is brave enough to stand for you and fight for you even if you can't always be together.
That there is someone who is hoping big time to be with you someday .
That there is someone who loves you truthfully even if you are away.
Maong bilib kaayo ko sa mga naa sa LDR. Stay strong ta ninyo.

[Htennek]

depende ra jud na ninyo TS. Pero lisod jud na.

ako cousin sauna kay naa sad to siya uyab na LDR, sweet kaayo to sila mura nag minyoonon kay ang girl suod na sa mom sa guy.
then ang girl ni larga sa US, so mao to sugod na LDR, pareha jd sa inyo situation galing lang mas layo pa. so halos everyday sige sad to sila call, tawag, videocall (kana pareha anang uban mag post2 sa fb nga matog na gani mag video2, haha). nya ang mom sa guy naa man sa US, so mag kita2 na sila didto sa gawas bonding2. then pila ka days, weeks, months, nahibaw-an nlng sa akong cousin naa na diay lain ang girl. then after pila ka months gikasal ang girl sa bag-o niya. whew maoy ako agaw.

so good luck nalang TS.

[tosip]

hahah. hmmmm... murag naa lage koy feeling gi-discourage ko aie heheh. Kinsay naay statistical data dinha? Kanang within pinas lang ang distance. Sige kog google ang mang gawas man na article kai kana man LDR sa lain nasud pero wala within sa pinas lang na LDR. Walay sheets and tables para makapatabang nako ug decide?

Bitaw okay raman sa ako ang LDR kai akong ex sa una LDR man mi ug 4 years pero same ug lugar lang jud ni nahitabo lang nag school ko sa Cebu. Pero mindanao and cebu rapud noon so dili ra kaayo layo and di ra kaayo gasto. Heheh. nagbulag na noon mi kai dili nami LDR and same city nami pero wala nay sparks.

Tapos sa iyang case (sa girl) kay taga Laguna siya pero iya uyab taga Baguio so LDR sila slight (by 8 hr travel daw). Tapos samot pajud sila na LDR kai nag barko na ang lalake sa gawas. Didto nawala na dayon ila communication tapos ang babae sigeg effort na manawag pero dili naman ang guy mao didto nag hugot2 siya tapos wala na nuon dayon siyay uyab. (basin nabayot nato xD)

Naghatag2 pajud siya ug hints na kanang didto nako mag work. Sigeg pakita ug pictures sa ilang hotsprings tapos dagko daw didto sweldo. Naks ambot nalang ug makaya nako ang congestion sad didto sa manila. Dako sweldo pero dako sad cost of living. Under man gud siya sa HR tapos naghatag jud ug job description na fit kaayo para sa akoa.

Hahah ambot lang ani. Naa man koi mga na meet sa personal, sa tinder, sa DIA, mostly dinhe raman sa mindanao naay uban naa dinha cebu. Siya lang so far ang ka chat nako na naa ra sa manila. Sa iyaha pajud ni pitik :P :P :P abi man gud nako sa una na Calamba MIsamis Occ. Calamba Laguna man diay and after 1 month pa nako nabaw-an :P :P :P

[Bonito4U]

Its a trap

[THE KID]

pag abot nalang mo sa tunga......

[luff101]

kini jud gugma.. kini jud siya bah....

[firestarter]

AKO LANG IPA SHORT AS POSSIBLE:
-Sa online rami nagka friend. Dili pami uyab pero naa nami na invest na feelings.
-8 months nami nag chat, call, videocall. Sometimes ako mag call sometimes siya.
-Both of us have jobs and in our mid twenties na.
-Same mi ug religion and church pero different branch lang. (protestant)
-Nag meet nami pero only once lang kai church activity man to. Lasted for about 2 weeks pero everyday mi magkita. Last October papud. Mas nauna ang meetup sa virtual ayha ang meetup sa personal.
-I have 3 jobs at the moment. Isa ka full time tapos 2 ka pang extra2 lang.
-I plan to use my 3rd income so I can come and visit her.
-magpaabot kog promo flights siguro (5k usually makita nako roundtrip na)
-The problem is naka try kog LDR pero kana lang dugay na nako kaila and ayha pami na LDR after pila pa ka years. But I have not tried LDR na wala/once pami nagmeet.
-I plan to meet her once/twice a year or maybe more than that... ang akoa lang kai magamit siguro nako ang akong leave most likely in one year a total of one month or more siguro na leave if tingbun nako.

-If the relationship doesn't go well, well we all know asa nani padulong hehe.

-Give me some insights and mga experiences sa mga naka try ani so far kai ako wala pako ka try ani man gud. Hehe I've also read some articles about LDR pero mostly kadto man gud mga dugay na nag-ila and nag uban tapos ayha pa na LDR after pila ka years.

Mao ni si daisy?

Sorry for necrodig.

[xetorkaiba]

dghana og chix aning TS oi pang hatag pud bi, tsk tsk

[Talk Hang]

ug moadto diay kas ilaha kanang dayoff nimo TS? pila man diay imong dayoff?