Wedding: Church or Civil or Both?

[nemo_11]

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bisag asa ug magka sinabot jud aw..pwde kaayu
bisan pag 50 ka simbahan adto mo kaslun pero ug wala piz.and harmony sa inyu pamilya wala japun

[riggineis]

civil o church pareho rana.. depend pd sa sitwasyon..

pero f kita na ka sa person na pang altar jd... church jd na cya hap... pero di pa nmo feel na mao na jd na cya sa altar.. aw civil lang sah

[charmie]

CHURCH para bongga...

[epson]

murag 3 out of 13 rah ang mo sang.ayon sa civil wedding from the looks of this thread alone...

[epson]

for me mas nindot kung church wedding.. although dako ang budget kinahanglan.. but it worth naman.. once for a life time baya na event sa imo life...

bro nganung mga taga bukid maka afford paman og church weddings? dili mn mn dapat nga bonga imung wedding..depende ra tingali na ninyo if maka afford mo so ma pugos jud mog gasto og dako2x maong maka ingun mog mahal...

on these days once in a lifetime weddings are becoming rare... labi nah if high end profile ka and can afford ka (even those mag liisud) naa ny mga kabit
Its always a thing to think about that kana imong gipakaslan karon mao nna cya ang the right man/woman for you the rest of your life But we never know how we encounter problems and challenges with your faith so that's why daghan nsd jud mag ka break up for numerous reasons.
Ideally what God has bind no man can break... maybe in understanding we believe on this (or not) but in practice kinda hard

[epson]

naa koy cuzin gi minyo og civil just recently although dili cya RC but nah shock lang gihapon ko ky i think their reason was dinalian (not nga buntis cya) just for the sake of getting married. Guy was of course RC (somewhat a problem with their faith) but he totally give-up his faith just for my cuzn. Im not blaming him or my cuzn of their situation but the fact that my cuzns family was really expecting her to go abroad and help her family literally went off the roof, even my aunties that supported her when she was still at school. I cant really decide for her because she also has her life, and i respect that. Nanga shock lang jud mi tanan sa among extended family of what happened ky we never expected it to happen... oh well it did and so it be

the question of having a church wedding or civil? it really depends on your faith and beliefs... it also measures how strong you are in your beliefs or how hypocrite you can be.. for me if im a non Cristian why would i bother church? or if im on different sect ill just go for what i believe in... but because im a catholic and has deeply believe on my faith why would i go for a civil wed if all things are in proper order, diba? doesnt have to be a lavish one

circumstances, circumstances, circumstances... its what you decide defines you of who you are and what you are made of

[pa0pa0]

ako adto lng sa Dagat or sa kawanangan pakasal, mas okey noh? LOL's!

[ninpags]

I prefered in the church considering it is religiously done and the loving couple is blessed.
But before deciding in getting married, consider this question first:

Is this a person whom i will be living with for the rest of my life? look forward and create some what if scenarios to avoid disappointment. sa software pa, kinahanglan jud ug create ug test scenarios before testing.

[nemo_11]

bisag asa basta kaun baboy

[ola]

if nay budget, go for church wedding!!

ang civil wedding para ra sa mga rush wedding like for example, preggy na ang girl
or mularga ang isa to work abroad para makuha ang isa after a year...

church wedding is more important.. everyone can witness, family, friends etc..