ayaw mo ingon ana brad... moagi mn gyd ang taw ug mid life crisis... Esp si TS mayawyawan sa asawa... then naa si miss pretty, fresh face.. light ang feelings, madani mn gyd ka... hehe..
brad @
harhar, if you can afford mag counseling sa mong duha... mao mn sd na buhaton sa judge in the process of annulment... unless naa gyd ka kaila na maayong Attny and judge, ma-annul dayon... (murag si Chiz...

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you love your GF... before.. then kaning panag-away, love fades... shifting pa mong duha, you have less time bonding on weekdays...
kaning mga asawa, sango2x ra ni sila bisag dili sila ganahan... Try not to spend your saturdays on drinking... some wives dont like husbands who smokes or drinks... manglikoy pd mga utok sa mga asawa, kaning inom2x ky murag nay chicks dala.. bisag wala gd...
pananghid lng daan barkada nimo, na magdate mo sa imong asawa somewhere... then you can surprise her.. ingna daan dili ka guilty on something...hehe.. you just want to save your marriage... because in marriage, you have to work it out until you die... focus on your family, not only feelings... kay louy ang bata if ma broken mo.. moreflect pd na sa bata.. you'll never know..
just try lng bro... date, flowers everyday or weekly or monthsary, team building activities or family edition, remember unsay hilig niya, or wants to do... ang girl, naa gyd na sweet spot...
ayaw lng kadismaya if hilaw pa ang response niya.. this will take time..
so try not to drink on weekends, or no bisyo... Date or watch a movie with the family...or date mo na kamo lng, ibilin ang bata sa parents or kaila.. or check in mo sa hotel.. date mo from affordable to expensive ones... read her mind...
as to your officemate, putla nang feelings connection niya.. as if secret nlng na gd... keep it to yourself.. huna2xa nlng naa na fiance or BF nang bayhana na...hehe.. And again, focus back to your family...
what if mag lingkod lng mo sa beach, while your kid is playing or swimming... picnic lng mo ba.. then start a conversation... soothing pd nang waves sa beach..
mao pa mahunahunaan nko masuggest nko brad...
and by the way, never again mention the past... it's been a decade now... you already mention it this past years.. it's already done... move on na ta... even my wife hates that, cgeg balik2x anang mga sayop...