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    Kinsa may serious ninyo nag decided mag kig buwag ba,, palihug kug dokul kana pina ka kusog,,kung ikaw gani,,nahala dokla imo self now an wake up. Since ni sulod man mo aning butanga an may anak man mo bisan un married mo, ang inyong first priority should be inyong Pamilya, imong anak, ikaw ug imong partner. Estoryahe ni ninyo kay tanan tawo naay apan, regardless pila man inyong sweldo pag sabot mo unsay maayo ninyong ma buhat ug ika lipay sa inyong anak Knang buwag way anak nga malipay ana. Pag usab mo unsay maayo. Pero ug mag buwag mo nya mag team team nasad ug lain get ready nalang unsay dangatan ninyo.

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    double check daw madam if the same gihapon inyong family goals, family values. musta man inyong individual dreams? do these dreams mamahimong foundation para ma achieve inyong family goals? try to communicate daw with an open mind and open heart. if masuko siya, ayaw pud duyogi iyang kasuko. sans the pisikalay lang pud. sabota lang daan. hatagig warning na if maabot pa gihapon sa pinisikalay, then you will have to call it quits because, really for me, dili jud ni tolerable pra nako. but try to save the family usa. lower your pride. if kailangan mo adjust, then go ahead but without compromising your dignity as a woman ha.

    Sincerely ask him if he is willing to save your family. Let him know sa imong na feel nga ganahan naka mo let go. And maybe others won't understand but pray. para nako sa akong giagian pud ron nga wa jud nako damha in my whole life, prayers rajud naghatag og strength nako. pray for guidance.

    gihatagan naman tag red flags from the start if the man we are with kay maayo ba gyud or not but since we believe that people change, so we forego of all these lapses. if all else fails and magbuwag gyud mo, mam, since you're not married all custodial rights sa bata naa ra gyud nimo. ang kanang financial support kay i.agi pa nag barangay then if dili gihapon motoman, adto nas korte. and btw, you can file for a case against him for violence against women and children if gusto gyud ka kung matymingan nga gibun.og ka niya. but akong ma highlight ra gyud noh, ang illegitimate child ang full custody e.honor sa mama and can only be contested by the father through court.

    God bless you.

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    naa nay lain

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    sad to hear these stories esp naa anak then mag buwag.

    Maybe ts, you need to reflect what went wrong sa inyong relationship. before mudako ang fire musogod gyd na cya og spark.
    try to remember what caused na inani cya. is it because you dont love each other na? is it because trust issues? try to find out na why naabot mu inani, then nakabaw naka sa real problem then you will know how to solve it.

    if worse comes to worst na gyd, maybe mas maau mag talk gyd mu amicably then buwag nlng gyd. Think lng gyd inyo anak not sa inyo needs..

    if makaya nmo, i will advise layas sa ka sa inyu haus with your mom to cool off the tensions so that both you can really think if this relationship is worth saving.

    hope you will find peace in your decision.

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    ang babae basta para sa mga anak mutaas jud pasensya ana.. pero kung abusive na ang partner physically, emotionally, mentally, verbally ug unsa pa na diha hala buwag oi.. ngano gud mag antos kung wa nay respeto..

    read this link for Republic Act 9262. to know your rights
    http://hrlibrary.umn.edu/research/Ph...20Children.pdf

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    whew! i can't imagine nga dapatan nko ako asawa kay tungod lng ana nga rason, in the front pjd sa among anak! that's a big NO NO, d nmn na pang laki nga lihoka uy,

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    TS kumusta naman emong situation karon.?

    Share pod TS para maka kuha pod ko idea in-case ma ingon ani pod akong situation.

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    You have to ask for financial support

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