can we actually even consider LDR as relationship? di man siguro. virtual? unsa na oi.
pwd man cguro boss, as long as naay connection.
tried ldr, 3mos lng, prioritized work d nako maka kontak niya kanunay kay cge mi ot nya maoy iya giselosan.
pero kanang feeling nga wa nay laing tawo gawas niya or maunsa nlng kaha ka kng mawala siya, for me is kulang sa self-love, kng hinay ang imo foundation of love sa imo self, unsaon nimo pag build ug strong relationship with someone else's love.
virtual cguro kng ang relasyon sa chat2x or txt2x lng, or murag wa lng lingaw2. pro kng ang relasyon gikan nga nagkauban sa una nya nagkalagyo lng naa nay emotional connection mao mag cge ug contact ang both parties nya kng may time mouli or adto sa ilaha or outing magkita somewhere para macharge ang kadugtungan sa usagusa. d man pud tanan nagkauban naay emotional connection or even trying to build something.
Nka last jd mi ug 6 years LDR ni migrate siya sa USA nya ako nga bilin sa cebu then na discover nko ang running png pa wala sa ka mingaw. Then iya ko g kuha 3 months ra ang processing and now kuyog njd twn mi dri sa states. Kaya rjd na ang LDR
for a person you really love, everything is worth it, even distance.. a little bit of sacrifice and a whole lot of trust.. if you really love a person, make it work.
Been there, done that. I work abroad so kasagaran nako relationships kay LDR.
First LDR I had, he cheated. I thought it was worth it at first before the cheating happened with us talking about getting married and stuff until I found out he cheated on me with a friend. Four plus years down the drain. SO NOT WORTH IT.
Next LDR, I ended it a few months after ko nilarga because I know I wasn't into it. At least I was honest and wala nako gipadugay.
Karon, LDR gihapon. LOL. Nothing serious, testing the waters. It takes a whole lotta trust and commitment. And for someone like me who has trust issues, believe me when I say IT'S FREAKING HARD.
Question now is "is worth it?" Usa ra akong matubag ani: How would you know if you don't try?
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Siguro if they started the relationship not LDR, then yeah. Pero kanang ga-char2x ras chat, viber or unsa ba na and wala pa gyud magkita, virtual.
In romantic relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart and vice versa. I've recently met a great lady on asiandate.com website. It seems to me there is no distance between us... She lives in China, I live in Germany...
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