i see.
if i may ask boss, how old are your kids ??
only a suggestion - if your kids are already in school, be sure that you'll be the one to personally pay the tuition fees in school. and as for the "ba-on" .. buy them groceries every week for a week's consumption.
and as for your wife - tell her to fack off, stop disturbing you with financial sheyt concerning hers ....
look at how stupid your wife is - she may have the Starex but how can she drive it and brag around town when she can't afford the gas
