What if the person you love isn't the same person you expected them to be as time goes by?

[JakLine]

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yes. kai ana mn jud na sa love. we need to accept the person fully for us to tell nga love jud na natu. people will always change coz change is the only constant thing we have in this world. what we need to do is to deal with that change. but try to tell the person pd if bati na nga change ang nahitabu nia. talk with him/her to clarify and fix things out

[bula1980]

Yes..when you love a person, acceptance comes with it...

[C'thulhu]

Will you still love the person even if he/she isn't who you expected them to be?

Love, is, what was and what will be...

[lstorya]

Depende if the change is for the better or for the worse. If its for the better, then what are you complaining about. If its for the worse, unsa may dugayan, martyr ka? If ang kina iya kay bisan ang iro kay mosuka, then bulagi, doing that wont make you any lesser as a person.

[brackitz]

yes oi, nahigugma na gud ka..so dawat na na nimu.

[mhaipush]

of course... but at the first place expectation wouldn't excess if you really love the person. just accept and adjust. then communicate and adjust. ana lang gud. kamu ramn ghapon mkasulbad ana. I already learned, mao dli nko gnhan mg.xpect jud.

[snake_eye]

that's why I don't believe in long engagement. It takes a "life time" to know a person. You will learn more about the person you love everyday especially when you are together.

Basing on my experience, when I met my ex-girlfriend, I was able to picture out myself spending my lifetime with her...so on our 3rd day of being officially a couple, I proposed and she said yes...then everything is history...

I am learning and discovering more of her everyday. There might be things that you don't like about each other. You may do something that she really hates and you did not see it before or know about. But the most important thing in a relationship is "OPEN COMMUNICATION". You tell your partner what you don't like and likes...but never expect that you or your partner will change...but meet in the middle. You can never change a person lagi na if it's already deep rooted/culture/upbringing na niya...but at least you can talk it out and do something about it. Better talk about it as early as now rather than wait until you ran out of patience...

That's my thinking.