Love VS. Parents and the like

[diem]

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[color=navy]@booc1025, the FACT that your girl broke up with you first indicates that she doesn't consider your relationship more important than her family, she isn't willing to fight her parents about it thus what is there to fight for?

No matter how you feel, it is somewhat apparent from her actions that your girl doesn't seem to feel the same.

You could confirm with her if she still feels that your relationship together is still worth having. If it's only her parents are against it, then inquire what are the REASONS why her parents disapprove of your relationship? Do you know the answer to that?

Is it your age, both you and your girlfriend? Your financial status? Your personality or persona? Why do her parents dislike you? Why do you not have their approval?

If indeed in your girl's parent's view-- you are lacking and appear unworthy for their daughter, well the best way to save your relationship is to earn their approval. Prove yourself to them as a person who has worth and character. Improve yourself in any way possible to meet their standards, if these are reasonable

If you do so, in the end you'll be a better person than who you are right now.

[shaxyra]

paminaw mo ni diem.. nindot au ni moadvice.. hehe

[diem]

[color=navy]Take also shaxyra's viewpoint to heart because she's been there, done that. Learn from her experience.

[b]Love shouldn't be a reason to fight against family and cause such bonds to tear apart. It should be the reason to strengthen the bonds and bring families together.

[shaxyra]

[color=navy]Take also shaxyra's viewpoint to heart because she's been there, done that. Learn from her experience.

[b]Love shouldn't be a reason to fight against family and cause such bonds to tear apart. It should be the reason to strengthen the bonds and bring families together.

exactly that's my point... for me.. family first ghapon oi..

[malory]

hi guys, iv had this experience. my parents before la gyud niuyun sa akoa bf. it wasnt easy... what i have come to realize is that parents have standards for their children, in my case my bf did not qualify.. lets face it parents want their children esp if they happen to be daughters to be with someone who can not only give them love care and affection but also PROVIDE in the standards their children was brought up with... i realized that my parents had these standards so that they will no longer be burdened with seeing their children wala napahimutang...
letting your parents see what you see in someone that at first they dont like takes process, painstaking process...

[malory]

i did what other girls would do when parents dont approve of a relationship, i wouldnt allow my bf to drop me off sa house - but you know if guys really have good intentions, they will insist to drop you off in your house and present themself to your parents.

i underwent a process when my parents would shout at me, i listened to all of what they say which were baseless for most part - so my bf reached out and want to talk to them face to face, they wouldnt face him - how funny and ironic parents can be sometimes..

im already a professional but my parents still consider me a teener

[GYM73]

try my best mga magustohan ko nila...if dili jud then i might give up nalang sa ilang anak if mosugot pud xa...that is my opinion only...

[nonagirl]

what would you do if d ka uyon imo family sa imo uyab?

[sexyjelly]

if im really that serious with my bf.. i'll let him visit sa amu hauz often para maka kita akong parents nga sakto akong napili.an nga uyab.. but, if it wont work out.. then, wa nakoy buhaton except for wait nalang sa time nga madawat ang pobre.. hehehe...

[mariox]

maybe they have a very good reason to do so... esp. if youre still a minor..

pagtaban oi if 18 above nka... you'll see how hard it is...