I don't like to be in a big group daghan ug pakisamahan rather than ikaw ra usa or tulo ba moh kay makaya rag sabot.
Karon pako nga ambivert diay na. Now I know where I belong. Hehehe.
what's the big deal. why try to justify ang pagka.loner? lol.
btaw, srly... i had that phase before too when i was more vulnerable sauna. ipokrito pd kay ko kung muingon kog wala ko nag.agi ana. i was worse than a creampuff. hahaha.
then i did a 180 turn to realistically assess myself, understand who i have become, listen to criticsms and not run away or cover my ears. i took them all in as raw as they are. too much to swallow, bawled my eyes out, but i let myself choke in the process till i learned how to cope up with it. and eventually, it strengthened my core and changed my perspective in life. the more i became self-aware, the less i try to overcompensate.
if gikapoy mag.inusara, then turn off your pc and get out of your room. do less social media. do you know nga facebook affects people psychologically? yup. there's a study about it bahin sa relation nya sa self-esteem. mao nang di na ko mahibung sa mentality sa kadaghanan nga ga.seek ug validation sa ubang taw. unhealthy.
also, initiate a convo even if it scares you. man up! mao ra gyud nay paagi. learn to play the social game even if you suck so hard at it. gurll, you're no special... nga tanang butang ihungit sa imo. sa binilyon ka taw aning kalibutana, ikaw na lang gyud? lol.
i'm not trying to depreciate anyone ha, i'm merely stating the reality. it's cruel than what most of us think. mao nang learn to adapt, else mabiyaan ka and you'll be placed at the bottom of the food chain.
if you want things to change, then act on it. ay sig pagarpar. buhata dayon.
sometimes i want to be alone with myself, sometimes with few selected friends, and sometimes with a large crowd.
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