"Napul-an, What are the things you should do to bring the spark back".

[annerhexian]

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Asa ka dapit napama-ulan ts, esti napul-an d i? hahaha

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Kung wala nay gugma, why hold back? Ingon si Elsa ts nga Let it go. Let it go. The cold would never bother you anyway. hehehe

Wala ko kahibaw naa kay barbie na elsa. Ahahaa

TS, try daw pag shift career, clown agency. Hehe joke

[Wynna]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder... Sometimes I think, what if I settle down na jud? di ba kaha ko mapul-an? Maybe I just couldn't trust myself anymore.

[havaianatic01]

Sa unsa man nga puol, gugma jud? Wala na kay gibati sa iyaha or namiss lang nimo ang time nga naay mag sige og pamulatik nimo nga gwapo/ gwapa ka, yummy etc.lol. Ayaw sa daw pagpakita or pagkontak nya for pila ka days. Pagmuni2 sa and hunahunaa kamillion kung di ba ka magmahay sa imuha decision.

[snake_eye]

Too much familiarity and predictability...mao na reason why mapul-an sa usa't-usa...
Wala naman romance or thrills...

Advise:
-for both of you, go on a trip somewhere that you're not familiar with
-start courting her again
-go out on a date pud nga wala pa ninyo ma adtuan before
-give time and space for each other to think and enjoy other people's company (kay basin sige lang mo kuyog)
-enjoy time with your friends without the other person but then again, make sure it's clean fun

always remember, there are also downsides pud if maganahan ka to spend more time with other people aside from your partners pud...put a limitation pud ana kay mu samot ang inyo situation....

Just my two cents...hope this helps.

[silent-kill]

I think for me kanang word nga "spark" angay rana siya sa sugod sa relationship.. as you mature.. into the relationship that "spark" is replaced with a conscious decision to love and continue loving. Love is not merely attraction, but it is also a constant choice.

as for my advice,
- It might be that you are giving too much, towards the relationship that you no longer know how to treat yourself.
A: so reward yourself, treat yourself make yourself happy.
- It might be that you are together all the time, that you are limiting your own growth as your own person.
- It might be that you don't have a life outside of your relationship, and you are secretly resenting her or yourself for it.
- It might be that you both are too codependent on each other.
A: create some distance, find new hobbies outside of your relationship, find couples who have made it through and observe what they have, and what is lacking with your relationship, and do something about it.
A: take lead of your own life, find yourself again, and why you are with her in the first place.

[princize]

Mapul-an sa taw or mapul-an lng sa routine? Sometimes we say napul-an ta sa relationship but we refer to the routine hihi try changing the routines... do something different, surprise yourself and your partner.

But i guess it's best to stay friends with each other... like if he asks for guys night out, you can also make arrangements with your girls to hang out... or travel with friends/ with other people around nga maka mingle mong duha in friendly way, not necessarily intimately.. this way you can look at your partner from a far, and appreciate what he/she is.

[bUrbY_dUll]

well just be true and the rest will be history