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[xtian_hero]

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well.. if you ask me...i would definitely say that she is "palaban"... imagine that... 6 person including a priest... my my my..... she must be one hell of a something...

seriously... past is past.... why not worry about her future.... and your future with her ( if that happens )... give her a second chance....

[chipper_buy]

at times when we give our comments, we see to it that we dont sound rude, and we dont hurt, or give a negative effect to others. to the extinct that it even deformed the our true response or idea. or you can say we hold our true emotions filter it, so that it will sound acceptable or neutral to everybody.

based on her past can we consider her as palaban?

comments are comments..it's both good and bad..it up to us to do something about the comment..remmember..we are not here in this world to comment or think negative to others..we are here to live our life the way we want it to be...u accept or decline a comment..it is up to you on what ur going to do about it..

U can say that she is palaban coz she is still alive isn't she...coz if she is not...she is not urs right now..she could be n hell, n heaven or any place .. u don't judge a person by the way she or he interacts with other people..u can judge her if u know wats inside of her thoughts on her heart and mind,,, let's face it we are all actors and actresses in this world...sometime we pretend sometime we don't..it is in us that we should know each other deeply..not appearance or the way she or he handles people..

If I were YOU i stop thinking to much instead I'll start Living my life on were im going to experience what's this world can offer to me...

[ajol]

actually you can't get the answer from her concerning her past.

so its best to observe.

[vaughn]

Did her affair to those guys involve emotions or plainly lust?

[esboss]

very nice point ajol: "why did those other guys leave her..." actually i did asked her about it. of course it was a one-sided investigation so the answer was biased..according to her, she was the one who dumped them. not them dumping her. (u think so?) and the reason was, simply they we're not serious or some 3rd party stuff involved.

so now we gonna back to women's silver bullet..twisting situation . we men even got more than 6 sexual relationship to be honest, at least on my part. i dont know how to answer this in an intelligent manner, but honestly, for me it doesn't look good for women fooling around. because i think women are expected to be more upright (right term?) than men.

good point why not worry about her future. well i believe that what you are now is because of your past one or the other. plus i have this lingering thought inside me...that if she can afford to do it before, there's no reason why she can't do it again.

[esboss]

vaughn i dont know exactly if what is your definition emotion/s. but if you're referring to love. then as a lady, having sexual relationship with 6 men, one after another, can you consider it love?

or should i ask, you think there's love involved?

[vaughn]

okay if it's one after another sexual relationship........i don't think love is involved...

yeah you had a point. why can't she do it again when she done it before a lot of times

That was before esboss...if you really have something for her, i guess you should take the risk.

If you think you cannot trust her bcoz of her past......then stop coz trust plays a very big role in a relationship. You won't be at peace everytime she's out without you accompanying her if ever makipagrelasyon jud ka ani nya.........

So, measure things carefully...you're the only one who can tell whether she's worthy of your trust, of your affection, of everything that you have for her.......

[esboss]

you know what part i cant figure out? is how she ended with that priest. considering that priest was an active priest. can any of you ladies imagine yourself in this situation?

[xtian_hero]

why ask questions if you already know the answer?..

[esboss]

xtian_hero that is what we call - confused.

you think i know the answer, yes i think i also have the answer. but im not sure if what i have is really an answer, or if its an answer, is it really a correct answer.

it helps a lot if nice guys like you are contributing their ideas, comments, etc...because if you're in an emotional state like me the tendency is, you mislook a whole lot of things.