before ka mo speak out.. you have to bring your parents on the teenage stage.. I mean naa man gud na sya stages.. like child, teenage, parents...
dpat nimo sila e put sa right place.. basta kung psychology inyo course. kasabot mo ani..
before ka mo speak out.. you have to bring your parents on the teenage stage.. I mean naa man gud na sya stages.. like child, teenage, parents...
dpat nimo sila e put sa right place.. basta kung psychology inyo course. kasabot mo ani..
okay ruh mn nang naai opinion pero dli lng sd cguro isulti ng patubag n paagi. kai bsag unsaun imu mn jd na clang parents and they know more than you. and isa pa ingun s Bible nga i honor imung parents. naa mn juy times n feel njud natu mtubag as anak kai naa tai point but ikalma lng sa imung self pra mka sulti k sa imung opinion in a way nga respectful.
sauna ako papa grabeh ka strikto.. mangasaba nana sya basta madugay ko ug uli.. so one time ako gi ingnan ako suod na amiga nga kasab-an ko sa ako papa basta dugay mauli.. maski 1 ka oras lang sugod sa tingpamauli sa school.. so mi ana sya tubaga imo papa nga "pasalamat ka pa miuli pa ko".. nya ambot unsay nasud sa akong hunahuna gi ingon jud nko.. ug sa dihang dako kaau nga sagpa akong nadawat...hahha buanga lagi.. well charge to experience..
Dili mana sala. Dapat lang gani sab ang ginikanan maminaw sa bata, dili ky sige rag singhag bisan wala pa kabalo unsay ugat jud. Hatagan sab nato ang bata og panahon na moexplain sa iyaha side. Mao ni sakoa anak, kung naa syay explain akoa paminawon. Ig makita nga tama sya, syempre magsorry or moanah mao ba diay etc. Pero kung sayop, mao na nga time akoa pasabton. Pero di man sab ko nga tipo na mokalit rag pangasaba. Mangutana man ko daan. Mura ra man mi og friend sakoa anak.
Dili sala, pero i think sakto tong opinion sa first page ... tubag with respect and love, dili kay bungat diri, bungat didto.
Kung mahimo na kang ginikanan, sangko sa langit tingali imong basol kung mabawsan na kas imong anak.
Last edited by ncmknight; 08-14-2015 at 08:05 PM.
It's not a sin. You just have to find out if your parents are over stepping the lines in your life without acknowledging the fact that you are now a fully grown adult with a mind of your own, and an experience in life they haven't quite accepted. If they still do not acknowledge this simple fact of life then its better to move out of their sight or home. In my experience I have been estrange with mother even though we live together there is just a part of me that has given up on rekindling a warm loving relationship with her. She has her short comings and so do I but if she's unwilling to change for you or for others then its another story.
You may be her child. You may have come out of her womb. But if the tension in your home has grown to a level that is no longer healthy then expect there will be hurt feelings and shouting involve. If they still can't understand where your coming from and what part of the your strained relationship is bothering the two of you, and your parent/s is unwilling to sit down and talk to you like another human being then there's nothing left to do but forgetting about it.
I admit I shout at my mother and parents not because I don't have any respect to them. But my shouting is a way of alerting them that something is not going right and it is disturbing to me, so think of it as a baby crying non-stop because there is a need that has been unfulfilled by the primary carer. So if your parent/s can't acknowledge this deep seated need then they'll never fulfill it and it ends with you having to fill it yourself.
Opinion lang nya timinga na walay problema imong ginikanan para d ka masinghagan.....always put in mind na they are always right every reason they have is for your own sake...time come kani na question mabalik ni sa imoha! always listen to the older one,,,they know better than you.
dli man sala, bsta kay d lng pnabusdak pud pgkasulti,
kanang naa ghapon ang respect bah.
dli man tingali sala kung motubag ta sa atong parents kay dli man sa tanang panahon nga sakto sila. pero ai lang gyud sad bastosa kay lain sad kaayo.![]()
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