Do's and Don'ts on a first date

[beyee]

Since he made mention of the wallet tip,
it gave me much thought of the past dates
I've had... so far, nothing incriminating.

And thanks for the tip morag maka ahat na
jud ko pasiplat sa wallet if the need arises

[volatile8]

This thread is a good read hahahahaha. Just be comfortable, as if you're talking to a close friend. Don't worry too much if he's gonna like you or not, he won't see you after that if he's not interested in you.

[Da Fai]

Points well taken.
As for the wallet issue, least priority as I can afford to pay my own bill like most of the girls here @lifeisbeyeeutiful @Wynna @larisse
but of course , since u give us a hint.
We'll add that (wallet) to the list ; definitely not ignore 8- pasiplat mode langkos wallet.

hahahaha! ok ma'am @miramax, i know most women now can afford, but you may never know... one thing guys hated women when they have this kind of "pride", i can advice for women when going on their first dates to lower their pride...
pa sulyap2 ka kunwari, pa tingin2 sa akin, di maintindihan, ang ibig mong sabihin, -----sus pitaka ra diay!!!! hahahahahahah

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Since he made mention of the wallet tip,
it gave me much thought of the past dates
I've had... so far, nothing incriminating.

And thanks for the tip morag maka ahat na
jud ko pasiplat sa wallet if the need arises

such use of the word "incriminating", harsh ra kaau ma'am, hahahaa
haahah, when the need arises... when? be specific, ayaw i blunt/generalize, kay daghan nata readers, haahahahaha

[beyee]

such use of the word "incriminating", harsh ra kaau ma'am, hahahaa
haahah, when the need arises... when? be specific, ayaw i blunt/generalize, kay daghan nata readers, haahahahaha

Hahahaha! Didn't mean to sound so harsh ui.
sugar-coating pa gali na

if I'd be specific on that note, mayabo ako tinaguan
ninja moves ana bai hahaha... btaw ui, if I like the
guy too much, my next move would be is to find
faults in him so not to be swayed too much by
how I feel about him

just being cautious lang kay like you guys mentioned
that when everything goes well na and there'll be
follow-up dates na, then in one swift opening of the
infamous wallet, sakspan ang family portrait or couple
photo... wagtang ang potential future dates lols

[Da Fai]

Hahahaha! Didn't mean to sound so harsh ui.
sugar-coating pa gali na

if I'd be specific on that note, mayabo ako tinaguan
ninja moves ana bai hahaha... btaw ui, if I like the
guy too much, my next move would be is to find
faults in him so not to be swayed too much by
how I feel about him

just being cautious lang kay like you guys mentioned
that when everything goes well na and there'll be
follow-up dates na, then in one swift opening of the
infamous wallet, sakspan ang family portrait or couple
photo... wagtang ang potential future dates lols

mayabo ang tinaguan but never hesitated to ask me nga ako man sad to tinaguan? hahaahahaha,
as per my experience, for "men" and mostly, finding faults are done in the first date...
if dili kaya sa lalaki, or maka feel xa nga there's something wrong, then batsi nana,..
no more calls, and no more txts, basin pa gani gi block naka sa social media, like total black.out...
no need to be cautious... really, daghan ways to make someone to spill the beans, and mostly mga business-minded/law related people can achieve this task, not too hard, but unachievable for the others...
have anyone heard about "guiding questions" and "leading questions"?
this is a pretty nice skill once you have these 2 in your communication/query arsenal,..
no need to ask specifically and make the one being questioned being shy or hesitate...

[beyee]

mayabo ang tinaguan but never hesitated to ask me nga ako man sad to tinaguan? hahaahahaha,
as per my experience, for "men" and mostly, finding faults are done in the first date...
if dili kaya sa lalaki, or maka feel xa nga there's something wrong, then batsi nana,..
no more calls, and no more txts, basin pa gani gi block naka sa social media, like total black.out...
no need to be cautious... really, daghan ways to make someone to spill the beans, and mostly mga business-minded/law related people can achieve this task, not too hard, but unachievable for the others...
have anyone heard about "guiding questions"?
this is a pretty nice skill once you have this in your communication/query arsenal,..
no need to ask specifically and make the one being questioned being shy or hesitate...

That's how you float your boat bai but I have ways (or skills) of finding
out via fishing expedition hehehe.. sometimes there are some peeps
who are so easy to read -- no brainer there but there are a chosen few
who can be so heavily cloaked that you can't even decipher who they
really are... well I'll take that had something to do with past experiences
that killed their spirit. I believe mas deep ma-hurt ang mga guys kesa
us, girls.

That's a tricky side in dating... You can never be too sure who you're dealing
with unless you go out on several occasions or if you're lucky, he'll warm up
to you right away because he trusts you that much (more he likes you)

[Da Fai]

That's how you float your boat bai but I have ways (or skills) of finding
out via fishing expedition hehehe.. sometimes there are some peeps
who are so easy to read -- no brainer there but there are a chosen few
who can be so heavily cloaked that you can't even decipher who they
really are... well I'll take that had something to do with past experiences
that killed their spirit. I believe mas deep ma-hurt ang mga guys kesa
us, girls.

That's a tricky side in dating... You can never be too sure who you're dealing
with unless you go out on several occasions or if you're lucky, he'll warm up
to you right away because he trusts you that much (more he likes you)

sakto, mas deeper ang meaning sa mga lalaki once they experience their first "pain" than girls...
mas taas sad ang suicide rate sa lalaki compared sa mga girls, ok, stop ta sa statistics kay bati mag storya ug "patay2" ma paranormal thread nya ni hahhaahah
heavily cloaked men are entities that you won't meet in real life, maybe some are some kind of cloaked, but not totally...
dating for me, is like this 2 sides of a coin, as what youve mentioned the tricky side, yes, and there's this straight forward attempts in dating, in which either way, those "DO's" that i have mentioned are most likely to be accepted by the majority...

[beyee]

Na windang lang ko reading your list of rules kay
nakaingon ko gone are the days na you guys just
go out and have fun -- well, that's just how I see
dating in is purest sense... straightforward.

Prolly, it had something to do with age and maturity.
Over time I lost that feeling that I'd be so eager to
wait for the guy to call back after the first date then
mope around if he doesn't call back anymore.

Now, I take each date as if it's the last. Enjoy til the
last drop

[Da Fai]

Na windang lang ko reading your list of rules kay
nakaingon ko gone are the days na you guys just
go out and have fun -- well, that's just how I see
dating in is purest sense... straightforward.

Prolly, it had something to do with age and maturity.
Over time I lost that feeling that I'd be so eager to
wait for the guy to call back after the first date then
mope around if he doesn't call back anymore.

Now, I take each date as if it's the last. Enjoy til the
last drop

date should be fun, both you and the person involved, but dating is still "spending hard-earned money"...
ok ra ning mga so called teens karon nga mag date2 para for fun and for social media lang...
but 24 and above? i think its not anymore...
being straightforward is the best choice now,
if neither of those involved are interested, then move to the next option, so as not to waste time, money and effort too much...

remember guys, dating itself is a waste of money already... we go on a date, chitchat, eat and dine, then split up then 50-50 chances of winning over to the next date... so before deciding and going to a date, better make sure your chances of winning is high, rather than go and deliberately lose your hard earned money and lose the battle.

[beyee]

I hear yah bai but when you're with the right person, the date itself is PRICELESS